Because 'Mad Cow Disease' was taken.

-- Author unknown, presumed deceased

My Orgasmic Impulse Level (OIL) gauge pointed to blue last night and yellow this morning.

What is it like for a guy to go for weeks at a time without orgasm? Would you go crazy with cravings? Would you be unable to sleep?

A few years ago I read the web site of a man who chose, of his own free will, to go through life celibate. Not for religious reasons, but just because he "felt better" that way. At the time I had a hard time imagining how anyone could feel that way, and wondered if the guy had abnormal hormone levels.

I still love you.

I don’t tell you that very often, because usually when I try to talk with you, I feel rejected, and I go away feeling hurt or angry. I wish we could talk with each other without so much stress.

Do you still love me, or at least, care about me? Sometimes I think you do. Sometimes you buy nice clothes for me. A week ago you told me “Don’t commit suicide” (by working so late). Why would you do or say those things if you don’t want me to be part of your life?

Let's not fight.

It's not good for any of us. It doesn't solve any problems.

Feeling angry causes stress. And stress is bad for your health.

Hello, fellow humans. My wife moved into a separate bedroom and we have had no sex for five years. This blog will probably be mostly about my adventures in trying to get us back together.