Submitted by Dano_Clarke on Sat, 2011-12-31 12:11
Wow that seems like a big number. It means I'm a week into my six month of no PMO. I really can't believe it's been this long. I've begun to question when I'm going to end my streak but I think I want to end it with another person instead of by myself. I've been thinking about quitting drinking again, guess I always feel that way after I overindulge. Had a "date" last night only to find that she had gotten back with her ex but had decided to say they weren't really together. On again off again. That's ok I have another date Thursday.
Submitted by Dano_Clarke on Sat, 2011-12-03 14:19
I've gotten the most time since joining this website. I can barely believe I've gone this long....most of that time has been smooth sailing. I think I hit my stride after the six weeks. Yet a few things have affected me lately I need to share.
Submitted by Dano_Clarke on Tue, 2011-11-22 08:09
Here is my marking of just over 120 days. I don't really have any advice or special insights. I just got on the bus this time and didn't give in no matter what and I'm still doing that. I've accomplished a lot in my life and am in the best physical condition ever.
I threw myself into working out and I'm now up to working out 5 or 6 days a week.
I started writing for my school paper and they even printed some of it...other things haven't been printed for political reasons related to the next point.
Submitted by Dano_Clarke on Tue, 2011-11-15 18:44
Hi all wanted to check in and explain things that have been going on with me.
Submitted by Dano_Clarke on Mon, 2011-10-31 04:59
Sooo I counted days from last entry and tomorrow I will be hitting 100. I don't know what to do next. I started out just doing my reboot and I am happy with the results but how do I know when I've gone long enough? My friends don't understand it and I didn't expect them to. On the other hand when I think about sex I still have pornographic fantasy. That kinda sucks but I guess I wasn't expecting to be "cured" it's a long term process. I'm curious what others have done or think in this situation.
Submitted by Dano_Clarke on Thu, 2011-10-27 12:28
Just needed to start a thread about something related to whats happening outside our sex lives. I'm very sympathetic to all the various personal struggles. At some point however I think it is a very good thing for us to get involved in something that isn't about us, or our boners, our mate search, or even the wonderful and enlightening sex we just had.
Submitted by Dano_Clarke on Mon, 2011-10-17 06:11
I know it sounds like a lot but it's a drop in the bucket compared to years of unlimited PMO. I'm happy I made it this far. We'll see if I make 100 or not before finding a mate with long term potential.
Keep posting, don't give up, no matter what you can do this.
DC
Submitted by Dano_Clarke on Sat, 2011-10-15 13:47
I did it once today and about a week and a half ago. No orgasm. Should I be worried? Maybe it feels different now that I'm over my 60 days. I want to make it to 100 I suppose but I didn't set out to do that. I guess I still should since I haven't done it yet.
There are possibilities for mates but I'm not sure about them yet. Haven't really gone on any dates in a while.
Sorry for the rambling post...need to go for a run.
Submitted by Dano_Clarke on Thu, 2011-10-13 18:49
Submitted by Dano_Clarke on Tue, 2011-10-04 05:01
I'm very happy I'm at Day 72 and I'm going to go as long as I can. Just checking in with everyone and I'm here to tell you guys struggling with relapse that this is *possible* and even likely if you stick with it and get serious about your recovery. Continue to examine what is holding you back. How much do you want to beat this thing? Do whatever it takes my friends. While you are at it get out there and start exercising!
Love for my peeps!
DC
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