Jrenee's blog

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Joni

Once a harmless pleasure, now a risky indulgence--masturbation seems to be all the rage. It used to be that titillating fantasies (like romance novels and playboy magazine) got us going, but now we use hardcore porn and power tools. I hear people talk about masturbation like it is their savior, the end-all-be-all. However, in my experience as a healthcare practitioner I have found that socially, culturally and physically it can be a debilitating, brain-altering act.

I shared my last exchange with a good friend of mine last night, and he asked to do one of his own. Try it, I hope you enjoy it~

My friend lay down comfortably on my bed, and asked me to sit on him (like on his belly- my knees bent by his side) and lay my chest on him with our foreheads touching. We spent some time doing this and breathing together. Then he asked me to touch a part of his body that needed touching (in his case it was the back of his neck, in my case it was my lower back.)

You can touch each others' spots at the same time, or individually.

Most people, even sexually active people have a part of their body that is lacking touch.
Ask your partner, "what part of your body needs touch?"
Give them a moment as they close their eyes and go inward to see where they need touch (genitals not included).
When they tell you, you have two choices. You can feel for yourself what kind of touch it is, and touch them this way (simple touch, stroking, massaging, kissing, etc) or you can ask them what kind of touch it needs.

I have been surprised at the potency of this exchange. Here is my last experience:

Thoughts on how to share this information with new or current partners?

Please post things that have worked for you in the past as well as have NOT worked in the past...

Thanks ALL!

Joni

After spending eight months in Asia studying abroad and holding strong boundaries, I came back to the States ready for MEN!

Gorgeous men abound here, and I had no trouble connecting with several lovers in the first few months. After many years of being stuck in the orgasm cycle, I was tired of it. I wondered how would Karezza (being sexually intimate without orgasm) work for singles?
Just to be clear, I wasn’t being recklessly promiscuous. The three men I’ve been with in the last few months I’ve known for 9 months to 3 years before entering into an intimacy phase with them.