After about four months of Karezza my wife and I are doing just fine, our relationship is stronger than ever and our sex life is very nice and I have no complaints. (Thanks Marnia and company) There is only one thing that I am stressing about just a little and I dont know what to do about it, I dont like stress.
My wife and I don't discuss sex very often, as she is just not comfortable with it, that is one thing that Karezza hasn't changed, yet.
But I did ask her about having some conventional sex sometime down the road and she flatly refused! I can't see where a session of good old "orgasm driven intercourse" would do us any harm. I'm not talking about going back to it permanently just once every now and then. She said no more O's for her, that she is perfectly content with things like they are, (she absolutely loves Karezza) which is awesome. This is coming from a woman who five months ago was having earth shattering orgasms (two or three a week) with me and had been for the last twenty five years! Now having an orgasm together isn't even an option anymore. I was hoping we could have one (orgasm) together every now and then, but now she refuses, says she doesnt need them anymore. When she told me that I felt like I did when I discovered Santa wasn't for real! No kidding, this one has been a little traumatic for me.
So, what do you think out there in Karezzaville, should I continue to gently pursue this matter till she gives in, or let it go, I need some help here.