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News and announcements from Marnia Robinson, Gary Wilson and the web admins.
| 34 | 160 | 3 weeks 1 day ago by janitor |
Contact the web administrators about technical and design issues relating to this web site.
| 16 | 68 | 20 weeks 1 hour ago by Seeker |
Do you have a partner? Want to try karezza (bonding-based lovemaking), but have questions? Have you tried it and want to share what it's like?
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Not sure how to approach a partner about karezza? Encountering resistance?
| 11 | 125 | 2 weeks 3 days ago by Dano_Clarke |
Not ready to lose your virginity? Has age or illness brought your lovemaking to a halt? How are you coping? How do others cope?
| 5 | 50 | 5 weeks 4 days ago by Quizure |
Can you benefit from the Exchanges if you, or your partner, has an addiction? (Also see the Forum on "Porn Addiction," if relevant.)
| 7 | 92 | 12 weeks 6 days ago by Marnia |
Surprising contentment? Blue balls? Extreme frustration? What's your experience, or that of your partner?
| 11 | 120 | 3 hours 5 min ago by Darryl |
Most forum visitors are single. They're especially interested in your discoveries.
| 43 | 382 | 1 day 5 hours ago by Darryl |
You are estranged from your spouse, but still hope to try karezza?
| 18 | 209 | 18 weeks 1 day ago by Marnia |
Our mammalian brain is programmed to cause us to habituate to a mate over time. How do you cope? How do others cope?
| 3 | 22 | 46 weeks 3 days ago by Marnia |
No attraction? What do you do?
| 2 | 2 | 18 weeks 1 day ago by michael78 |
Does it seem like you hooked up with the wrong person? Want to find out for sure? How do you cope if you want to avoid separating?
| 1 | 1 | 1 year 42 weeks ago by Marnia |
Self-tracking tools developed my forum members:
http://www.reuniting.info/node/2084
| 7 | 78 | 1 week 6 days ago by Marnia |
| 8 | 61 | 3 weeks 6 days ago by davidphd1866 | |
Come here for support from others on the forum.
| 34 | 250 | 1 week 6 days ago by gary |
Many who are interested in these ideas don't have partners yet. These are the questions that come up.
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As a pair-bonding mammal, it can feel like something is missing when you're without a mate. How do you cope? How do others cope?
| 21 | 211 | 1 day 20 hours ago by JRsun76 |
Try it and tell us how you feel.
| 56 | 623 | 1 day 14 min ago by Darryl |
Relationships can be scary in today's culture. Come here for support from others on the forum.
| 50 | 433 | 3 weeks 2 days ago by Arnold |
Popular psychology tells us we're defective if we don't orgasm effortlessly. Is this true?
| 2 | 40 | 1 year 22 weeks ago by Marnia |
Friendly interaction is very soothing. Here are suggestions.
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This thread lists groups that people can join. Friendly contact with others is very soothing to the nervous system. Please add your suggestions to that page.
Have fun!
http://www.reuniting.info/node/2446
| 2 | 39 | 4 weeks 6 days ago by Marnia |
Are you ready for a partner?
| 5 | 58 | 7 weeks 4 days ago by Daffy Duck |
Have you experienced blissful sensations without conventional orgasm?
| 10 | 182 | 3 weeks 8 hours ago by Tantra11 |
Self-tracking tools developed by forum members:
http://www.reuniting.info/node/2084
| 1 | 4 | 4 weeks 22 hours ago by RedDragon |
Cravings for homosexual sex?
| 13 | 366 | 4 weeks 1 day ago by Marnia |
Experiencing dream orgasms?
| 12 | 108 | 3 days 43 min ago by davidphd1866 |
Don't have a partner and you're facing some challenges? Commiserate with others, or help them here.
| 24 | 112 | 4 weeks 3 days ago by Marnia |
Questions and answers about polyamory, prostate health, menstrual cycles...and anything else.
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This forum is for general discussion about what it means to be a male or female, how the genders interact, etc.
| 23 | 354 | 4 days 9 hours ago by Marnia |
If you have a question or issue you'd like to see an article on in the "Reuniting" newsletter, post it here.
| 33 | 314 | 2 weeks 3 days ago by Marnia |
| 63 | 384 | 5 weeks 1 day ago by Marnia | |
Sometimes it's good to have a safe (anonymous) cyber-pal of the opposite sex - even temporarily. Get the perspective of the opposite sex, and help a fellow human cope with the challenges of confusing relationships. Although some Companions turn into long-term cyber friendships, this program is not a matchmaking effort. Companions are assigned at random. Volunteer now!
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Courtly Companionship is an anonymous brother-sister connection between equals. For more read Courtly Companions.
Anyone who wants to volunteer can indicate his or her willingness in his/her User Account.
| 8 | 46 | 1 week 2 days ago by Marnia |
Know of a good online dating service for people who might be interested in trying sacred sexuality? If so, please post them here. The more networking among such people, the better your chances of locating your ideal mate. These have been recommended by forum members. Use your discretion if you explore them.
| 6 | 44 | 1 year 7 weeks ago by Arnold |
Need a laugh? Want to read something uplifting?
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Want to share something that inspires you?
| 12 | 35 | 5 days 1 hour ago by Marnia |
Want to share some music with others?
| 5 | 14 | 2 weeks 3 days ago by Quizure |
Need a laugh about the gender gap?
| 23 | 82 | 15 min 49 sec ago by hotspring |
Can sexual relationships HEAL addiction? - If you think you may be suffering from porn addiction, or if you have a partner who is, feel free to post your thoughts here. We will try to support you. Visit the Wiki for help from others who are coping with this challenge: http://www.reuniting.info/wiki#porn
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Please check out this article and let us know what works for you, and what doesn't. Thanks.
http://www.reuniting.info/resources/porn_masturbation_addiction
| 14 | 83 | 5 weeks 2 days ago by Marnia |
Struggling with porn addiction recovery? Tell us what helps and what slows your recovery.
| 189 | 1841 | 16 min 56 sec ago by TheZone |
Is your mate hooked on porn? What helps you cope? What makes it hard to cope?
| 5 | 35 | 6 weeks 4 days ago by Marnia |
Having trouble rewiring your brain away from compulsive porn use? Try this technique developed for OCD patients.
| 3 | 11 | 18 weeks 3 days ago by Courage |
Self-tracking tools created by forum members:
http://www.reuniting.info/node/2084
| 2 | 7 | 3 weeks 6 days ago by polar_psych |
When you try to stop using porn, what are your withdrawal symptoms?
| 15 | 251 | 6 days 9 hours ago by Marnia |
It's not easy to modify your behavior, but many substances can create their own withdrawal misery. Share relevant information here.
| 3 | 39 | 22 weeks 3 days ago by Present |
Know of another site that has helped you? Share it here.
| 12 | 52 | 21 hours 21 min ago by Marnia |
What do kids need to know about the way sex interacts with the brain? About the importance of friendly, affectionate contact with the opposite sex? About the risks of current sexual advice in our culture?
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Is there a way to explain the risks of porn without making kids feel guilty?
| 15 | 79 | 3 weeks 1 day ago by Marnia |
Thoughts on circumcision.
| 1 | 35 | 1 week 2 days ago by sunnyday |
Have some interesting research you want to share?
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Discussion and posting of scientific articles and research relevant to sexuality, evolutionary biology, relationships, addiction, and healing.
| 91 | 319 | 1 week 6 days ago by Marnia |
What spiritual tradition(s) or practice(s) do you use? What do your sacred texts have to say about the link between sex and spirituality? Do you get guidance directly, which you would like to share?
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Have you received any spiritual guidance directly about relationships, sexuality, the union of male and female, or??? Please share it here.
| 6 | 61 | 19 weeks 6 days ago by Present |
Post links to relevant web sites or articles that promote a similar approach to intimate relationships. Discuss other traditions (like Taoism, Gnosticism, Male Continence, Kabbalah, courtly love...).
| 34 | 155 | 1 week 4 days ago by Marnia |
Share your favorite text with us, and what influence it has on you.
| 1 | 4 | 3 years 10 weeks ago by janitor |
Samael Aun Weor is a neo-gnostic, and many around the world follow his teachings. Many of those visit this site because he recommends a similar approach to sexuality.
| 3 | 46 | 1 year 38 weeks ago by Marnia |
Rants and raves on "Cupid's Poisoned Arrow" or "Peace Between the Sheets." Finding like-minded people.
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Comments about Cupid's Poisoned Arrow: From Habit to Harmony in Sexual Relationships.
| 7 | 23 | 2 weeks 3 days ago by Marnia |
Comments about Peace Between the Sheets: Healing with Sexual Relationships
| 41 | 176 | 36 weeks 4 days ago by Marnia |
Would you like to share your knowledge with people who may not have heard about these ideas yet? This forum is about how to promote healing sexual relationships.
| 17 | 100 | 38 weeks 2 days ago by Marnia |
Find a mentor. Organize meetings and support groups in your geographical area.
| 12 | 33 | 5 weeks 2 hours ago by Sid |
If you want to suggest a therapy, opportunity or service related to spiritual and personal growth, post here
| 6 | 18 | 26 weeks 6 days ago by wendyomatik |
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