Making Love by Barry Long
The cause of most of the unhappiness on earth is that man and woman have actually forgotten how to make physical love. This is the greatest tragedy of all time. The forgetfulness has been going on and slowly getting worse for so many thousands of years that it's now a tragedy for the whole of mankind. There can be no mass solutions. The problem is too personal and too deep. Everybody has to do it for himself or herself, or it can't be done.
Woman’s basic unhappiness, her perennial discontent, is because man can no longer reach her physically. Her emotional excess, depressions, tearful frustrations, even premenstrual tension and the conditions leading to hysterectomy and other uterine problems, are due to man’s sexual failure to gather or release in lovemaking her finest, fundamental, female energies. These extraordinarily beautiful divine energies are intense and exquisite and when left untapped in woman, as they are now, they degenerate into psychic or emotional disturbances, and eventually crystallise into physical abnormalities. The womb gives birth to all things.
Man’s basic unhappiness, his perennial restlessness, is because in forgetting how to make love he’s abandoned his original divine authority and lost sexual control of himself. His emotional or psychic degeneracy manifests as sex obsession. All men, without exception, are sex obsessed. This means compulsive sexual fantasising, chronic masturbation (even when living with a partner), sex repression leading to anger and violence, and the universal symptoms of chasing wealth and getting lost in work.
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Real Men Do Cuddle by Reid Mihalko
..After seven months and 60-plus Cuddle Parties, I can say with what was at first astonishment, and is now warm satisfaction, that REAL MEN DO CUDDLE. And they're coming to Cuddle Parties.
When I say "Real Man" I don't mean the Fonz from Happy Days meets the Last Action Hero meets Gone With The Wind's Rhett Butler. I mean smart, funny, kind men who know how to touch, who respect a woman's No, and who give women space to decide what they actually want. The kind of man who not only gets all this, but realizes WHY it's important. I'm talking about men who are interested in getting to know you before getting your number.
And I'm not talking about skinny, oversensitive wimps either.
I've met men who are just as into fixing your flat tire as massaging your tired feet. I've seen men show up in their $1200 business suits and change into their Old Navy PJs and not even blink an eye. We've had millionaire Cuddle Monsters and blue collar Cuddle Monsters, lawyer Cuddle Monsters and computer programer Cuddle Monsters grace our puppy piles. Insurance salesmen and college professors, artists and architects... and what do they have in common? They get it. Or at least they're tired of what they've been getting....
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