A male friend said my book needed to address this question, so here's an excerpt from the new book that does so. Feel free to add your comments to the end of the article.
One reason people often believe that orgasm is purely a beneficial outlet is that it seems to solve the problem of too much sexual energy—or perhaps too much semen if you’re male. This impression seems irrefutable, in part because wet dreams are a natural phenomenon of adolescence. It’s logical to assume that the body is making extra semen that has nowhere else to go. ...
Ladies, this is your chance to find out what the men on the planet have been going through...and make a pal of the opposite sex who can help you stay on a even keel the next time you fall in love!
For those who missed it, here's a recap of the inspiring model created by Chilean psychologist Francisco Moreno.
Transorgasmic sex is based in thermodynamics, and heavily influenced by the work of C. G. Jung. I use the term "irreversible expansion" (for example, an atomic explosion) for the orgasmic experience, and "reversible expansion" (for example, a nuclear reactor) for the transorgasmic experience.
Transorgasmic consciousness has existed in all cultures. It does not belong to sexuality only. Even in sports and other physical or aesthetic disciplines we find experiences similar to transorgasmic. ...