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10 Days Later - The Return of the Libido
It's been 10 days since my last orgasm (well, ignoring the dream O last night). So far, it's been fairly easy. Yeah, I've had days I've been anxious - mostly to meet my goddess but that's about it. I haven't really felt an urge to watch porn. An occasional mild craving but it takes about 1-2 seconds to shut that out. Completely porn free so far and I intend to go a full 2 months porn free. No cheating this time around! 
My goddess wasn't feeling so well last night so we had to cancel our plans. I was bummed but 'tis life. Today, I've felt like I've moved on a little - I don't know where our relationship will take us but I'm not attached to getting into something serious. I would rather enjoy each others company as long as we're around each other. That's what she's wanted all along so I think I've finally made peace with that.
Other than that, I did have a dream O last night. I don't remember any of the dream, just the O. I had been drinking earlier in the night which would have raised my dopamine and I was noticing some of the cuties at the bar yesterday too. It seems to add up. My libido is returning. Dream O's don't bother me anymore though - I recognize they're only a sign that I need to find myself a healthy nurturing relationship.
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Comments
Seems surprising
I'm surprised that you had a dream O so soon during celibacy... I wonder if alcohol and/or sexual stimulation (without orgasm) during the day makes these more likely to happen at night? Very curious topic...