I'm looking for some pointers for having sex the first time with a new partner.
I found that with some partners it clicked right away, but more often it has to grow. And I was always wondering if we should talk about sex before we do it, or just do it. What do you think? And what is a good time for first sex (first date, 10th date)?
On that note, Id like to adress this question on this forum too: Somehow the women I've been with all wanted to be taken during penitration. Even though foreplay can take a lot of time and is often sweet and fun, when it came to penetration they all wanted only the rough stuff (pounding, dirty talk etc). I'n not opposed to that, but I also like some tenderness during penitration and women don't seem to like that. Just from the first moment on they seemed to want me to go full speed, while I feel more like building it up. I always thought there was something wrong with me. To me it seems impossible to have a real connection during penitration if it can only be the rough stuff. What is your take on this?