Adult Diapers

Submitted by Halo on Tue, 2010-01-26 07:38
Community topics: 
sexual continence
hypnosis
self-hypnosis

I don't like the term "continence." It makes me think of adult diapers. Depends. I'm going to try to think up an alternative that I can use...

Today is really day 2 for me again. But I'm feeling very good about it; the whole thing seems to be getting easier - I seem to be changing. I'm still "self pleasuring" a bit, but it's relaxed, and I don't feel denied when I stop. As well, fantasies that go along with it are generally ones that I like.

I made version one of my self-hypnosis mp3. I felt good about that too. It's only a proto-type, but when I have a version that I'm ready to release, I'll make it available to this group for free. Not a problem, I'm happy to do this.

I find myself enjoying contributing here, and even though there's some turbulence and conflict, it's not as bad as some other groups I've seen, and I feel confident things will work out (naive?). It's a learning curve for us all in a lot of ways.

Over and out,

-Halo

Comments

Submitted by Rockhardington on Tue, 2010-01-26 08:04.

Kind of does sound like depends...

Its interesting how healing from this works, its not always linear. Ive started noticing results even during withdrawals now. I am having the same 'changing' experience too. The addict mind wants us to get hard on ourselves and beat ourselves up and think that because we failed to act perfectly that we screwed up, but in truth, we are getting better even if we do. If we get into to that habit of looking at how far we've come instead of how screwed up we are, we will have much better results. No one is beyond repair. Keep hanging in there

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Submitted by Marnia on Tue, 2010-01-26 11:32.

just plain vague...because it means so many things to different people.

In any case, it's clear that "balance" is a more productive goal. That way, each person can find his own ideal through experimentation.

Submitted by Poet on Tue, 2010-01-26 12:03.

Without wanting to make a big deal of it, we have found that daily hugs and weekly non-karezza encounters smiley work with no noticeable hangover. Scheduling reduces the spontaneity, but on the other hand, adds an element of anticipation. With teenagers in the house at any and all hours, finding quiet, private hours is a challenge.

P.

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Submitted by Marnia on Tue, 2010-01-26 13:44.

Poet. Whatever works.