How to avoid the final orgasmic climax in prolong lovemaking

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Situation

During a prolong lovemaking, in a non-orgasm motivated sex...

1. How do you avoid the final orgasmic climax phase?

Please share in detail explaination.

Thanks :D

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sparks wrote:
Situation

During a prolong lovemaking, in a non-orgasm motivated sex...

1. How do you avoid the final orgasmic climax phase?

Please share in detail explaination.

Thanks :D

1- Make up you mind to actually and totally investigate this new form of sexuality, at least for a month or two.

2- During your loving sessions with your wife, don't go anywhere near the edge of orgasm. When you are inside your wife, move only as much as necessary to maintain the erection. If you start to get too excited, stop moving or withdraw completely.

3- Put a time limit on you love session.

At the beginning, it's enough if you're inside your wife for 5 to 10 minutes only. This is important.

Males are conditionned to stop any sexual activity when they ejaculate. They stop masturbating after they have ejaculated. They stop making love to their wifes after they have reached their orgams (they then turn over to the other side and have a snore!).

Since in this new form of love-making the male is not supposed to reach the point of orgasm, he suddenly doesn't know when to stop. The temptation is to carry on the session for a long time... until it's too late, the situation gets too hot, and ejaculation happens.

So, have a lot of foreplay during which you can forget about what your penis thinks but concentrate on loving your wife, then put a 5 minutes limit on penetrative sex. After the set amount of time, withdraw and carry on loving your wife with your eyes, heart and hands, allowing your penis to cool down. Then, once your session is finished, lay on your back and "transmute" upwards your sexual energy as described below.

4- Don't watch any pornography, or allow your fantasies to take control of your mind.
If you watch porn, you will have fantasies.
If you have fantasies, you will want to masturbate just a little.
If you want to masturbate just a little, you will want to masturbate more.
If you want to masturbate more, you will want to ejaculate.
Game over.

5- Practice a lot, at any time you feel aroused, the practice I gave you in another topic:

http://www.reuniting.info/node/400#comment-201

webadmin wrote:
In my experience, the semen doesn't stay in your testes. You can raise your sexual energy inwards, up your spine, up to your brain, to feed your brain cells! Wink Just imagine it. After your love session or whenever you feel aroused (in the morning, for example), lay on your back, hands by your sides, knees raised (i.e. your feet close to your buttocks), and imagine the energy rising up as you breathe. Take slightly longer and deeper breaths than you usually do. As you breathe in, imagine the energy flowing inwards from your coccyx, up the spine and up to the back of the brain, then around to the from, up to the bridge of your nose (between your eyebrows). As you breathe out, imagine the energy carrying on its journey from the bridge of the nose to your heart, which glows brighter. Just imagine this. After much practice, you will actually start to feel it.

You can practice this really anytime, and as much as you want. You don't even need to be lying down. If for example you are at the office and you find yourself lusting over the secretary with the wonderbras, you can practice the exercise above even sitting at your desk.

6- Practice any other activities that make you feel good, like gardening, meditating, volunteer to help in your community, play with the cats or your dog, etc...

Blessings.

How to avoid the final orgasmic climax in prolong lovemaking

thanks webadmin for answering my questions in detail. :)

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2- During your loving sessions with your wife, don't go anywhere near the edge of orgasm. When you are inside your wife, move only as much as necessary to maintain the erection. If you start to get too excited, stop moving or withdraw completely.

Questions

1. i notice if i already eaten a deliscious cake (caring love-making) what's the purpose of bothering inserting my penis to my wife's vagina (icing) if i have no reason to ejaculate in the end?

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So, have a lot of foreplay during which you can forget about what your penis thinks but concentrate on loving your wife, then put a 5 minutes limit on penetrative sex. After the set amount of time, withdraw and carry on loving your wife with your eyes, heart and hands, allowing your penis to cool down. Then, once your session is finished, lay on your back and "transmute" upwards your sexual energy as described below.

2. where shoulid i place my hands while making love with her after the penetrate-5-mins-sex is done?

3. What's the purpose of transmute of sexual energy?

4. After i relax for about 20 mins. after my transmute of sexual energy can i go back again to make love my wife in a caring love making penetrate-5min-sex?

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You can practice this really anytime, and as much as you want. You don't even need to be lying down. If for example you are at the office and you find yourself lusting over the secretary with the wonderbras, you can practice the exercise above even sitting at your desk.

6- Practice any other activities that make you feel good, like gardening, meditating, volunteer to help in your community, play with the cats or your dog, etc...

Thanks for the advice. :)