1st Day Still have only one thing to tell my wife

Submitted by wanttodeaddictm... on Wed, 2010-07-14 12:46
Withdrawal symptoms

Even though i started it yesterday, i had an orgasm with my wife so i dont want to count on it, so today is the 1st day . Hands shivering, having headache, I even attended a interview yesterday with this shiver, god knows what must have happened, i could see myself struggle to speak in interview and with my wife.
I told everything to my wife today, she is acting as a therapist for me as she is a doctor, I know she has such a great shock and is not telling out, I am worried what will happen to her.
I told my wife about my previous fantasies and how i fantasised my ex friends and girlfriends and in chat, My wife was my first physical partner, so as I for her, I never had anyone before, I didnt tell her that when I was in my 11th grade I tried gay sex with a friend of mine, even though it didnt go longer, his servent came knocking the room. i feel bit guilty of not telling this to my wife.
I want my relationship to work, so want to get out of this sooner.

Thanks in advance for any supports.

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Submitted by Marnia on Wed, 2010-07-14 12:57.

That way you can get support and keep track of your progress.

This is such a tricky challenge...and so easy to fall into. Have you checked out the support here? http://www.reuniting.info/wiki#porn

The more you understand how your brain has tricked you, the easier it will be to leave the shame behind and empower yourself to move through the necessary, and uncomfortable, withdrawal. Can you join a support group where you are? One with real people? It helps to be able to laugh with others who have made the same mistake but are doing better.

And also, you may find this type of lovemaking helps ease your cravings (even though it seems like it would do the very opposite). http://www.reuniting.info/karezza_evaluation

Good luck. See you at your blog! Instructions: http://www.reuniting.info/resources/bloggers

*big hug*