I am making a video that you can post in your online dating profile to show people that you are looking for karezza in a relationship.
It's going to be short: five minutes or so.
It's going to be light-hearted and funny. I want to present the concepts in a concrete way and stay away from floaty language that makes it hard to differentiate karezza from other sacred sex practices and which might make someone think it's a sexual style only for certain personalities and think, "Oh, that's not me."
The setting is a national park campground and the only character is an outdoors guide, Eagle Scout type guy. I think I found the actor who's going to play him and he's really great.
PLEASE HELP ME BRAINSTORM! I'll put down the ideas that I have and please tell me any ideas that you might have for the video. I want to see anything and everything so don't edit yourself.
The main idea is to have him give a demonstration on how to make a campfire, and the fire is a metaphor for sexual attraction/enjoyment. The bonding program will be represented by lighter fluid and the mating program (or maybe the orgasm) will be represented by water. So he'll show how you can start a fire and either get it going really big with more lighter fluid, or put it out with water, at which point it has to be started up again. But, when the canister of lighter fluid runs out, that's when the honeymoon neurochemistry runs out and it gets much harder to start up the fire again.
Please tell me:
- Any specific lines you think of - could be funny lines or particular phraseology that you think would be compelling to a non-initiate
- Any other scenarios/metaphors that I might want to use, like I was thinking he could show how to tie a knot that can't be easily undone, etc.
- Any pieces of text from anywhere that you find particularly compelling, maybe the thing that made you have a lightbulb moment, whether it was an excerpt from CPA or a testimonial from someone on this forum