If you are just curious, or serious about experimenting with making love differently, then you probably want to know more. There is a lot of information available at this site.

Books

• Peace Between the Sheets (2003) This is the book that inspired this website.
• The Karezza Method (1931) Book on controlled intercourse by J. William Lloyd, MD. Available free (click on title).
• Karezza: Ethics of Marriage (1903) Book on controlled intercourse by Alice B. Stockham, MD. Available free (click on title).
• Male Continence (1872) Pamphlet about making love without ejaculation by John Humphrey Noyes. Available free (click on title).
• Sex Perfection and Marital Happiness (1949) Excerpts from book on benefits of disciplined sexuality by Rudolf von Urban, MD. Available free (click on title).
• Hua Hu Ching (original material created 300 B.C.E?) Text of oral teachings attributed to Chinese Taoist Master Lao Tzu, which discusses controlled intercourse, or "angelic dual cultivation." (Trans. by Brian Walker) Available free (click on title).
• Related reading (Your suggestions welcome)

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People's experiences with controlled intercourse

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Healing support

"What can I take?"

People sometimes ask us “what can I take?” to support the transition from conventional sex to controlled intercourse. We're not doctors. However, one visitor to this site has had good results using homeopathy. Homeopathy is a holistic approach to healing that is unique for each client. It signals the body to focus its healing powers on particular symptoms, and it does not interfere with the effects of pharmaceuticals. Learn more and contact a naturopathic physician.

Compulsive behaviors

One of the key concepts at this site is that orgasm is a "natural reinforcer," with the potential to become addictive. This has implications in intimate relationships, but also for those without partners, for whom pornography can become compelling and destructive.

• How to explain the risks of porn to a young guy
• Help! Porn addiction in Progress
• Solo Practices for Rechanneling Sexual Energy
• What your YOUR withdrawal symptoms?

Want more information?

• Choose an article from the Wisdom or Science pages. (When you get to the page, check the left-hand margin.)
• Read past newsletters (See bottom of page.)
• Find links to journalists' articles about mating behavior. (More here.)
• Browse research abstracts related to mating behavior and key neurochemicals.
• Study excerpts of spiritual texts and inspired writings on sacred sexuality, from various traditions .

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