If you are just curious, or serious about experimenting with making love differently, then you probably want to know more. There is a lot of information available at this site.

Reuniting videos

• Short summary of Cupid's Poisoned Arrow (YOU Tube)
• Forty-three minute presentation related to Cupid's Poisoned Arrow (YOU Tube)
• Short video of Marnia discussing key concepts (YOU Tube)
• Short summary in Spanish (YOU Tube)
• Additional videos

People's experiences with karezza

• Interesting threads discussing the practice
  Thread 1

"Once we got over the shift to a new sexual paradigm we never looked back. I could probably say for myself this may be the single most valuable discovery I have made in my entire life. It transformed my relationship with my wife. I never tire of her and pretty much can never get enough of her."

• Thread 2

"This past weekend I found myself in a constant state of wonder and I found myself repeatedly saying to myself on multiple occasions, "I'll be damned!" (Not literally of course, to the contrary I feel really blessed)."

• Comments from Peace Between the Sheets (precursor to Cupid's Poisoned Arrow) readers
• Longer stories

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• Visit and comment on members' Blogs (You may also request to start your own.)
• Visit and comment in the Forum

Healing support

Audio book for kids: Things You Didn't Know About Porn $4.95 from iAmplify (MP3)

Want to track the orgasm cycle for yourself? Here are tracking tools developed by site members.

Compulsive behaviors

One of the key concepts at this site is that orgasm is a "natural reinforcer," with the potential to become addictive. This has implications in intimate relationships, but also for those without partners, for whom pornography can become compelling and destructive.

• Try this technique for rewiring the brain to stop a compulsive behavior.
• Read wiki articles by site members about porn recovery.
• Further thoughts about porn addiction.
• Solo Practices for Rechanneling Sexual Energy
• Is quitting causing you intense discomfort? Wondering what others went through? Tell us your YOUR withdrawal symptoms.
• "HELP! I'm having a bad night."
• Excerpts from psychiatrist Norman Doidge's book The Brain That Changes Itself, which deal with the addictiveness of pornography.
• Support groups (including online-only support).




"What can I take?"

People sometimes ask us “what can I take?” to support the transition from conventional sex to controlled intercourse. We're not doctors. However, one visitor to this site has had good results using homeopathy. Homeopathy is a holistic approach to healing that is unique for each client. It signals the body to focus its healing powers on particular symptoms, and it does not interfere with the effects of pharmaceuticals. Learn more and contact a naturopathic physician.

Also, various people contributed suggestions of supplements they have found helpful here: http://www.reuniting.info/node/3352

Need a laugh?

Visit our Humor page.

Or this forum link.

Want more information?

• Choose an article from the Wisdom or Science pages. (When you get to the page, check the left-hand margin.)
• Read past newsletters (See bottom of page.)
• Find links to journalists' articles about mating behavior. (More here.)
• Browse research abstracts related to mating behavior and key neurochemicals.
• Study excerpts of spiritual texts and inspired writings on sacred sexuality, from various traditions .

Miscellaneous support

Technical help

• Technical FAQs about creating a blog, getting help, and so forth

Want to try an affectionate exchange with your mate?

• Visit Exchange of the Day