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Part I of this article explained that junk food (especially high sugar/high fat nutritionally-empty foods) and sexual stimulation (especially with the emphasis on climax rather than affectionate contact), although natural, have the potential to distort sound judgment. Both are examples of supranormal (unusually intense) stimulation, which reinforce learning – that is, they draw our exaggerated attention to anything associated with experiencing them. 'Learning reinforcement' is the same brain mechanism that distorts addicts' judgment, and locks them into their destructive behaviors. It occurs in the reward circuitry of the brain, and the neurochemical dopamine plays a critical role.
A key point is that our brains are not geared to handle supranormal stimulation, even from natural sources like sex and food. Mae West didn't know this when she said, "Too much of a good thing...is even better." Despite the compelling messages from our reward circuitry about how 'good' these things are, 'too much' is a potential problem when the 'good thing' entails release of excess dopamine in the reward circuitry of the brain.
Not everyone becomes an addict, of course. But nearly everyone's judgment is distorted now and then by natural reinforcers. (There is even evidence that high dopamine may distort sexual preference.) We binge on what is not good for us; we pursue sexual gratification in circumstances that risk unwanted pregnancy, disease, or destruction of our primary relationship. We also run a very real risk of creating unwanted dependency.
We may blame our behavior on our character deficiencies, the inadequacy of our mates, or the fabled devil. Yet perhaps it would be wiser to learn more about supranormal stimulation, its effects on our behavior, and its potential risks. We could more easily engage the evolved parts of our brain and make sounder decisions when temptation presents itself. In the case of supranormal stimulation, it's far better to choose wisely at the outset. The more we unsettle our equilibrium, the harder it is to change course. After all, our brain is literally rewiring itself to focus more and more of our attention on the stimulant.
To state it differently, our willpower is eroding where our chosen enticement is concerned. As a result, our judgment about its value to us is also likely to be increasingly distorted. Too often this means that our perception of those around us – especially if they impede our satiation – suffers. Our mate, for example, may seem unusually irritating or unable to meet our needs (because our needs
have become exaggerated). We may discard a mate for reasons that have more to do with our own distorted thinking than with our mate's true value to us.
Unwittingly, we are also risking long-term depression, the loss of pleasure from milder stimulation, uncomfortable withdrawal symptoms, increased attraction to other addictive substances or activities, and an unruly desire to repeat unwise behavior.
All of these risks apply especially strongly to stimulants promoting compulsive eating and cyberporn addiction. However, even conventional sex can trigger supranormal stimulation. For millennia, careful observers have remarked on its power to hijack our judgment and inflame desires. Less careful observers have watched their lives turn into soap opera plots without a clue as to the true significance that intense sexual gratification plays in the process.
In this article we'll first consider how the labels 'addictive' and 'non-addictive' can obscure important information where learning reinforcers are concerned. All of them are, in fact, on the same reward circuitry spectrum, which is largely governed by dopamine. Next we'll look at some research that may highlight the inherent risks in supranormal stimulation, whatever its source. Then we'll address strategies for coping with our susceptibility.
Sex isn't always addictive, but we have only to consult our novels, TV episodes, and usually our own past experience to see that it is very frequently perception distorting. For example, a liaison with Monica Lewinsky no doubt seemed to Bill Clinton like a good idea at the time. Instead it turned out to be a huge error in judgment - not unlike a teenager's casual use of recreational drugs. In Clinton's case, this error had negative consequences on the entire country, making possible the election of the current administration.
Actually the question, "Is sexual stimulation or junk food addictive?" is a bit of a red herring. It implies that the issue is black and white, and that there is no difference between balanced meals and fries, and no difference between caring intercourse and an isolating porn habit. The better question is, "Is this substance or activity likely to absorb my attention in such a way that it could sabotage my powers of discernment?" The answer to this question determines whether something is potentially harmful.
The medical profession does not ask this question. It traditionally thinks in black and white terms because it has to decide whether to define a particular condition as suitable for medical intervention - using pharmaceuticals, for example.1
It draws the line between pathological and non-pathological somewhat arbitrarily. Not only that, this boundary changes over time. Not long ago, doctors did not recognize alcoholism as a disease calling for medical intervention. On the other hand, despite the official reluctance of the profession, some doctors now suggest that compulsive eating and sexual compulsion should be recognized as pathologies.
Meanwhile, the mainstream is perhaps lulled into a false sense of security by the fact that the medical profession hasn't officially warned us of the addictiveness of natural reinforcers like junk food and intense sexual stimulation empty of affection.
One result is that we tend to assure each other that nearly any sexual behavior is healthy and harmless if enough people appear to be doing it. Yet should commonplace be the test of harmlessness? Maybe the question should be "Does a behavior easily seize the attention in a way that distorts judgment?" Or "Does it escalate compulsive behavior because of its natural tendency to reinforce learning?"
For example, our culture is flooded with increasingly explicit sexual images. This trend is framed as a free speech debate. Yet should we frame it as a risky natural reinforcer debate? Could we educate ourselves to avoid dangerous content because of its supranormal stimulation? In fact, explicit sexual imagery is not all about freedom. At a biological level, it's quite the opposite. Recklessly, and from an early age, many of us are being induced to focus increasing attention on supranormal sexual stimulation. Over time, supranormal stimulation changes the brain, drawing users ever more powerfully toward the targeted stimulant. In reality, advertisers' calculated coercion of the human will is the very opposite of freedom.
Whether or not officials stamp something as an addiction, if it has the power to usurp our judgment, we're on a slippery slope. If someone is likely to be unable to form a health-giving intimate relationship because his reward circuitry will signal him that erotic stimulation is more rewarding than the trusted companionship of a real person, shouldn't he be warned - even if his situation is not officially recognized as pathological?
The substances and activities that are officially recognized as addictive, such as methamphetamine, gambling, alcohol and so forth, have been studied quite a bit in the last decade or so. Not only that, researchers have conducted experiments on the effects of elevated dopamine. (Again, dopamine is the craving neurochemical behind all learning reinforcers, both natural and otherwise, whether or not they have been labeled addictions.)
While there's much still to learn, the unwelcome effects of supranormal stimulants are coming into focus - and there is already some evidence that natural reinforcers can alter the brain and behavior in ways similar to recognized addictive substances.
For example, recent neuroimaging studies in humans have discovered neuroadaptations in the brain of obese individuals that mimic those previously observed in individuals addicted to cocaine and other drugs of abuse. 2 Overconsumption of sugar has produced behavioral and neurochemical signs of opiate withdrawal.3 And, as we pointed out in Part I of this article, Dutch researchers found that brain scans of ejaculating men resembled brain scans of people shooting heroin.4 Such parallels between learning reinforcers make sense, as dopamine is common to them all.
As you read the following list, consider whether you, or someone you know, may be suffering from the effects supranormal stimulation, via a natural reinforcer.
Today the whole day I have been shaking with jitters similar to how it felt when I had quit smoking. My body has been jolted with what felt like an unusually intense energy especially in my spine. I would feel tense and stiff for a while and then as if my spinal bones are being popped and a big relief and then tension and then relief. It just came out of the blue and has been subsiding.
Another risk of supranormal stimulation is what scientists call 'cross-tolerances.' That is, such stimulation can make someone more likely to reach for other potent stimuli. For example, hamsters that have previously mated are more likely to use amphetamines than are virgin hamsters.8 Teens who are sexually active use more recreational drugs than those who are not.9 Sugars have produced cross-tolerance with drugs of abuse.10 If you suffer (or someone you care about suffers) anxiety, depression, irritability or intense cravings in connection with the use of a natural reinforcer like junk food or sexual stimulation, it might be wise to treat these effects as warning signals that your 'mind is bending.' It could be time to let go of the behavior, however harmless it may seem, and regain your equilibrium.
Of course, it's seldom that we recognize our discomfort is related to supranormal stimulation. Instead we tend to blame those around us for our stress or anxiety. Sadly, stress itself can veil the return to clear perception. It has been shown to trigger the dopamine system and promote the use of addictive substances. 11
Once we understand that supranormal stimulants can alter our brain even if they are natural, we can steer around these risks. Here are some suggestions:
Junk food snacks are NOT just another food. Cyberporn sex is NOT just another way to orgasm. Let advertisers sell you designer water, a CD, or the latest gizmo, but think twice before consuming junk food and using potent sexual stimuli. They aren't mere indulgences. At our current stage of evolution they can be mind-benders.