Submitted by stepping to the sun on Fri, 2011-12-23 16:45
Submitted by Sirens on Mon, 2011-12-12 14:07
i'm kind of bummed b/c i had a wet dream last night. its been 40 days without p/m/o. how long will this make me feel off? or will it at all? i wanted to hang out with people this weekend and be functioning right socially and all. so should i still go?
Submitted by Polarity on Sat, 2011-10-22 14:08
In the beginning was the One, and It was infinite in all directions, neither male or female. But It was alone, and loneliness is not good for the soul. Alone, the divine being yearned to love and be loved, to know and be known, to touch and be touched. And so It split Itself in two. One half was male and the other female. The male half we call Shivapure, formless, unmoving spirit. The female half we call Shakti, our mother, who is matter and energy and form. Shiva and Shakti have always been one and will always be one, but to our eyes they appear as two.
Submitted by Sirens on Tue, 2011-09-27 11:54
i keep trying to put myself out there. i managed to meet 3 people on craigslist and it was nice to get out. everyone i meet online/ on dating sites unfriends me on facebook soon after chatting. during withdrawal i know i can be too clingy/ weird/ depressed/needy maybe that why everyone stops talking to me/unfriends me.
Submitted by razil on Sun, 2011-08-28 07:18
im feeling incomplete today. like i have no one. which is true b/c i lost all friends from this addiction and have never been in a relationship. porn is what i would turn to before when feeling this. but porn is only leading me farther away from people/relationships. i dont want to waste away, are my standards too high? am i relying too much on looks? im wired to judge a persons appearance, how do i defeat this? people that are into me just aren't my type and those i like are too good for me/ could never be interested in me. seems like everybody tries to get a better looking partner.
Submitted by razil on Sun, 2011-08-28 05:57
is there such a thing? can sex organ fatigue cause hypothyroidism or other related endocrine related disorders? will abstaining improve these conditions or makes hormone levels function optimally as they did before one got into the addictive cycle? (hormones return to normal)
will bnding behavirs improve hormone levels? promote healing? i probably havent had much oxytocin for years.
Submitted by razil on Tue, 2011-08-23 01:24
i dont know if this is the right place to post this:
Addiction has aged me so much i'm 21 now and im wondering if it’s possible to undo the damage that addiction to porn and masturbation has done to my appearance? I have always ate healthy and never drank, smoked, or done any drugs.
Submitted by imnotcoming on Wed, 2011-07-20 23:08
I haven't looked at porn or had an orgasm in about 40 days. I wasn't addicted - I just never had a reason to want to quit since it all seemed healthy and moderate. My experience since quitting is nothing as crazy as what the men on here describe, but there are vague echoes of it.
I did notice some marked horniness (during sexy movie scenes) in the first two or three weeks that faded to a more comfortable level in week four and beyond. No flatline at all.
Submitted by imnotcoming on Mon, 2011-07-11 18:11
This is continued from this discussion: http://www.reuniting.info/node/6901
Well, that artsy guy wandered off. 
But I have a date tomorrow night. I'm not excited but my roommate told me to go because she liked his messages.
Submitted by imnotcoming on Mon, 2011-07-04 12:51
Ok so. I am actively meeting people on OkCupid.
I decided I would feel comfortable talking about karezza on a second date. I'm pretty experienced at TMI/oversharing and I can usually make someone comfortable with me (or if he didn't seem comfortable and open, I would hold off).
But I need to know from the men, how should I present this idea? Should I put more emphasis on how I have personally chosen to forego orgasms because of the benefits to my reward circuitry or more on the loving connection I am looking for in a partner? Or what?
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