Submitted by freedom on Tue, 2011-11-15 23:18
I’m using attractiveness in a holistic sense beyond just the physical. For those in long-term relationships, I’m wondering how their partner ranked initially in attractiveness compared to others they seriously considered and, if so, how that attractiveness level moved about over time.
Submitted by chipdog on Sun, 2011-07-03 18:34
30 year porn addiction... and a 40+ year-old virgin to boot. Otherwise, my life is fine, and I've always felt relatively happy even being alone but of course there was always a piece missing.
Submitted by silentrenewal on Thu, 2009-10-29 21:12
So here I am looking at Karezza and thinking this is absolutely the way to go forward. I buy the book, make sure my wife sees it, open up the subject a bit and the response was - "We need to let go and just flow like we used to and stop with all this theory."
Submitted by thelongrun on Sun, 2009-08-23 21:16
I can't believe it's been so long since I posted.
I'm not dead! I am porn free - but actually I think the correct term for me would be masturbation free. The porn is just the delivery vehicle. The beer delivering the alcohol.
I am no longer a groaning, lonely, embarrassed, self-loathing idiot who hides at night to masturbate.
Sure I stay up to late. I think I'm wired that way. I wake up tired. I wish I could kick that.
But I have loads more energy and focus. WAY more self confidence and time to do the things I want to do.
The walking around in a daze is just a distant memory.
