Submitted by Arnold on Fri, 2011-11-18 21:46
Ok. This is my first stab at blogging. I've started at day 1572 (today) because that's about how long (4 years and 16 weeks) I've been exploring Marnia's ideas and inviting others to explore it with me. Finding a partner to do even 3 weeks of the non-sexual Exchanges is something that I have not yet been able to create. (This part of the Exchanges is important to me due to its potential effect on healing the effects of early childhood bonding trauma.) I'm looking forward to connecting with other members of this on-line community.
Submitted by MexicanTexican on Fri, 2011-10-28 14:58
So I was hanging out with my girlfriend today and we were laying on her bed in her room (you can already see where this is going >.>
. So we were just talking and I asked her if she wanted a massage. She was in her underwear and a t-shirt, so she took the shirt off and I gave her a massage. After I was finished she asked me to finger her. So I did my thing, no problems.
Submitted by MexicanTexican on Sat, 2011-10-15 19:34
So I woke up this morning and took my ex-girlfriend-but-kinda-still-my-girlfriend to the zoo after making her some toast boiled eggs and waffles for breakfast. We had a great time and saw lots of interesting animals. Giraffes, lions, lemurs, rhinos, snow leopards, all kindsa stuff. It was a pretty awesome day.
Submitted by davidphd1866 on Fri, 2011-07-22 12:36
After reading "What to do with the Surplus" it's becoming more and more apparent that the male ejaculation serves only one useful (useful, not "pleasurable") purpose and that is for procreation. It seems we do our brains more harm than good by such a release whenever procreation is not the goal. http://www.reuniting.info/science/surplus_sexual_energy Further, my wife asked me recently to give her "one good reason why I should orgasm?" I can't give her one.
Submitted by mr. drew on Mon, 2010-11-22 20:34
Fascinating study: serum testostone peaks 7 days after ejaculation.
http://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/12659241
A research on the relationship between ejaculation and serum testosterone level in men.
Jiang M, Xin J, Zou Q, Shen JW.
Abstract
Submitted by chello on Wed, 2010-11-03 02:06
Hi,
I'm new to this forum but have been following this site for some time. Like many other men, I feel like orgasm while very pleasurable itself, leaves me "empty" and with some craving feelings.
So I have been experimenting (alone and with my wife) with limiting/withholding my orgasm. With limited success so far. I can maintain orgasmless arousal and stimulation for a stretch of days, but usually within a week it becomes to much and I succumb to the temptation of allout ejaculation.
Submitted by davidphd1866 on Thu, 2010-07-29 17:10
Today I completed my second session with "NP Hypnotist" using hypnosis as an adjunct to my overall efforts. Our first session focused on attaining the deeply relaxed state, while the second one dealt specifically with the notion of omitting ejaculation from my sexual practices--en route to a Karezza lifestyle.
Submitted by davidphd1866 on Mon, 2010-07-19 15:13
Dear Forum Members,
Like many of us, I have caused myself considerable problems as a result of excessive masturbation, porn and ejaculation over my lifetime. In my case, I have clearly cheated my spouse out of the terrfic love-making pleasure she deserves as a result. As a means to heal myself, I have been fortunate to embark on a regimen of hypnosis therapy with one of our forum members (NP Hypnotist). Her and I decided it may be interesting to share our therapy journey on this site.
Submitted by Kalakairos on Thu, 2010-06-10 14:49
Hi everyone -
I am in love with a wonderful man, but he isn't sure he wants to take the karezza path because he hates having blue balls. How do you avoid this condition? Any tips or techniques? I really want to stay in love...
Thank you
Kalagirl
Submitted by damonshouse on Tue, 2010-06-08 04:05
Many believe including myself that the ejaculation of sperm is wrong and should even be illegal. Sperm is precious and sacred. It is the start of all life and an amazing gift.
I myself would never allow my body to release it.
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