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Day 54 cracking down on fantasy

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So I'm back after posting my first article on here. If you want a better background just find my article titled "day 53 interesting progress". If not, a quick background: age 20, long term unknowing addict, gf prospect of 2 months, no sex with her yet, but she knows and accepts my issue, 54 days no P, 52 days no MO. Little signs of healing. Fantasy slowing reboot. Entire reboot has been flatline.

Day 53 of reboot, interesting progress..

Well, after lurking on YBOP and reuniting for going on 2 months now, I've decided I need to get on here and track my own progress and join my fellow warriors of this PMO bullshit. To keep this short, while still infomative, I will give you all a quick background of my habit. Like most, I discovered masturbation around 11 or 12. Very young, but it started off with images in sports illustarted and victorias secret. Soon, around 13 or 14, I started my porn escapades. I thought nothing of it as it had been portrayed as normal and many around me were doing it to. It did not seem bad.

Update on ED

Seems like there are some pretty interesting opinons on whether a fleshlight is useful or not. Well, I have an interesting update on that. So I got mine and was curious to see if it could be the tool I thought it might, one that would help resensitize me. Interestingly enough, I went for a full 2 hours (taking breaks in between smiley) with a 75-80% erection and was unable to finish! I was at least happy to find that I could maintain an erection without having to squeeze my penis to death.

The Discharge

I am a 21 yr old male. Been jerking to porn since entering college at age 17. Had gotten bjs from girls before but no sex. Sex came later at about 19 but with serious ED. Eventually lost the chick, mojo and other chicks after.

Have been off PMO for 2 Weeks now, and since my first couple of days I have been discharging.

Why does my body discharge this strange fluid, almost every day? Is it good for me?

Why Do I Find Porn More Exciting Than A Partner? (our latest Psychology Today post)

This post covers sensitization which explains cravings, relapses, and why you can get harder and more excited for porn than a real partner.

Impotent Darth VaderIt's really hard to get erections when I'm trying to [have intercourse]. Takes about 20 minutes or so to get it up. Really embarrassing. But if I'm sitting and watching my pornz, it's almost instant.—Porn user in his 20s

I think the time is now - 36, with 20+ years of on off porn addiction

Hi all,

I am very glad I came across this site. As you can tell from the title, after more than 20 years, I have decided to break up with porn.
Sorry for the super long post, but I have never told this to no one before, and I want to get it off my chest.

29 years old, delayed ejaculation and ed, day 7

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I started masturbation pretty early, at about then years old, and did it almost daily since then. When I got a girlfriend at 18, I had no problems getting an erection, but it took extremely long to reach orgasm. I guess I was just to used to masturbation to get pleasure from real sex. It was easiest for me to get an orgasm when my partner gave me a handjob or when we had sex doggy style. I never had an orgasm in missionary.

Still ED sometimes after reboot

I’m now about 110 days PMO free, and I’ve begun to see big, happy changes in my performance. They show by getting and remaining hard during intercourse with my girlfriend, no more wanting to do PMO, now also getting disgusted by what I used to like (fetishes), and also not having urges anymore (sometimes I do notice that my mind... wanders to ‘wanting to start fantasizing’, but with it doesn’t come any dopamine induced pleasure feeling and so it’s pretty easy to block.).

♥marriage, sex and karezza, intro to Emerson

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Marriage and sex, how wonderful! -- Introduction from Emerson

I started to masturbate when I was maybe 10 or 11. At the age of 13 a girl tried to seduce me but I felt I was too young. I hadn't had a proper puberty yet. Maybe I was closer to 12 actually.

Scary.

Then an aggressive girl across the street was babysitting and invited me over to the empty house. The kid was asleep. She wanted me. But I couldn't really get into it. I was scared.

63 Days and feeling great - 19 Years Old

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My friends, I'm happy to report that things are going well. I still get the occasional urge, but on the whole I feel like quitting porn became so much easier after the first 4 weeks.

I have edged a tiny bit while in bed late at night, and have been wow'ed every time by getting 100% erections, something I hadn't enjoyed in years.

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