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A few years back, I read most of the book Think and Get Rich. One aspect of the book that stood out, is that the author says that most successful men are married and they got married young. He basically said, these men we able to use the same energy that most men use to chase women and apply it to their business or what either other pursuit the were looking to achieve rather then trying to get laid. So when we look at women, one way to stop objectifying them, is to start seeing them as a potential wife rather than a "hook up" or a "lay".

I haven't had any form of sex for three weeks now. This is the longest period of time I've been without sex since I can remember. I like it.

I'm married. My wife is beginning to pine for it and I want to make her happy but I don't want to return to being addicted to sex. I also don't want to dwell on this too much. I want to get on with my life, but I'm struggling to find things to fill the time and I'm spending lots of time using the computer to look up stuff about psychology and addictions, which is very interesting but is it getting me where I want to go? Not really.