After spending eight months in Asia studying abroad and holding strong boundaries, I came back to the States ready for MEN!

Gorgeous men abound here, and I had no trouble connecting with several lovers in the first few months. After many years of being stuck in the orgasm cycle, I was tired of it. I wondered how would Karezza (being sexually intimate without orgasm) work for singles?

T and my Karezza practice has deepened. We've had to go through some frustration, some orgasms, some fighting, and then healing. But each step of the way has been really healing for both of us. It's funny how you don't really "know" what something is until you "do."

This past week during one of our practices T opened up afterward and asked me "are there any 'buts' in your heart about us?" She was sobbing (although it was a release and not despair). At that moment I felt the Spirit guide me to propose. I had had the engagement ring purchased for a while, and it was hidden away in my closet because I was waiting for the right moment. In that moment I realized that there were no 'buts' in my heart. More profoundly than I had ever felt it. We had just shared this completely intimate practice, and I think it was the first time I realized how incredibly blessed I am to have not only her, but also the gift of Karezza.

Just discovered your site. My wife and I have been practicing/doing what can be called Karezza for a number of years. We started with the Mantak Chia and tantric writings and my initial efforts were along the lines of control, effort, and procedures.

It has been five years now of experimenting with Peace karezza in our 18-year relationship. At first my wife resented me taking away her pleasure. So I said, OK let's play with it and see what happens. Two years ago we were on the verge of divorce after having gone back entirely to standard western fucking. Then I restarted the program again in spite of resentment blocks. Staying married also depended upon taking vows very seriously and surrendering to the Universe.

All those delightful bonding behaviours! My wife and I were breezing along delightfully, choosing our daily activities and seemingly getting more and more fond of each other. Then, a hiccup occurred. We had visitors for three weeks; and then we went on a walking trip which always had one other person besides ourselves in attendance. During this time, we abandoned our ’choices’ regime.

I haven't said how much finding this website really means to me. It's hard to put into words anyway, but Marnia and Gary should still know it's not something I'd just take for granted. Quite frankly, it's new hope. For months I went through these phony religious and semi-religious websites (God doesn't want you to look at porn!; Pray and you shall be set free!; Connections between porn industry and sex crime rate are either evident or not; The Devil puts porn into your head and you'll turn into a serial killer now; 12-step program to become a gutless eunuch; etc; etc).

Dear Marnia,

I'm Francisco Moreno and I live in Santiago de Chile (South America). Firstly I want to congratulate you for your page. It's one of the best I've found on the web. I was seeking a page where the sexual subject was approached with the perspective of a no-orgasmic model.

Dear Marnia,

It is known that the second chakra pertains to both sexuality and creativity. I believe we have a choice: to live a life full of brilliant, creative expression or to waste our creative expression on the expenditure of sexual energy through orgasm creating an unhealthy neurochemical addiction to dopamine [highs].

Being in our power, means being in our own unique creative expression. We are living in a society that supports sexuality more than it does creative expression.