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News and announcements from Marnia Robinson, Gary Wilson and the web admins.

TODAY IS "THE DAY!" so if you haven't made a loan to Kiva, please do!
Many of you benefit from the forum and the blogs. The man who made all this possible (by volunteering innumerable hours of his valuable time) is celebrating his Big Four-Oh this month. When I asked what he would like, he said with his usual noblesse:
The best birthday present would be for you to invite the Reuniting members to lend $25 to Kiva.

Hello,
Sometimes, I find myself turning my thumbs, not too sure how to use my time best. It doesn't happen very often, but still, I could use this time constructively.
It also happens that at those times, I am thinking about you, awesome gals and guys, who are on an unorthodox discovery journey.
Recently, we've seen somewhat of an increase in spam advertisements on the forum. People (or bots) post a comment to an article or forum topic that usually seems at least vaguely related to the topic, but is always very short and contains a link to an external site which they are trying to advertise. We delete such posts and ban the users as soon as we can, but you may still sometimes encounter them. Although some links may be completely innocuous, obviously, the security of any site linked to in a spam message is in question.

In the interest of fairness, here is some clarification about what is considered acceptable on this forum and what is considered grounds for curbing users.
Individual needs are important here, but not as important as the needs of the group as a whole. While wide-ranging discussions are encouraged, Reuniting has two primary purposes:
1. To explore the careful management of sexual energy, and
2. To heal old patterns that get in the way of closer, more nourishing union.

This forum is for visitors to the "Reuniting" site, and readers of Cupid's Poisoned Arrow and Peace Between the Sheets.
Once you have joined the site, you will be able to comment on any forum post. To blog, contact me, and I will enable you to start your own threads on subjects you want to talk about. Blogging instructions.

Hello,
We are trying hard to maintain a nice and safe area for people to share and learn.
Most notably, we often have to deal with spammers who register and post in these forums to promote gambling and pornographic web sites.
However, we are not always aware of everything that occurs within this site. We rely on you to repport any activity by any member that you would consider abusive. Please send us a mail or send us a private message and we'll promptly investigate the matter and deal with abuse.

I've just created a Facebook Page for discussing issues in "Cupid's Poisoned Arrow" as they relate to couples particularly. Everyone is welcome to join in the discussions there, but we'll try to keep singles issues and porn issues here on the Reuniting forum, where we have a bit more privacy and a "family" feel.
If you would like to be informed of items added to the new Facebook page, just click "Like" when you get to this link: http://www.facebook.com/pages/Marnia-Robinson/127386697273296?v=wall

The German edition of Cupid's Poisoned Arrow can now be ordered. It will be available April 20, 2010. Preview excerpt of German edition.
Amors Pfeil trifft mitten in einen der primitivsten Teile unseres Gehirns. Folgsam verlieben wir uns, durchströmt von einem Feuerwerk leidenschaftlicher Gefühle, für eine Zeit lang gebunden... Und dann langt es uns miteinander, wir werden reizbar, unerreichbar und zerstreut. Wir versuchen unseren Geliebten umzuformen, suchen Trost bei anderen oder stürzen uns in eine neue Liebesgeschichte.
Warum bleiben Liebespaare nicht zusammen? Marnia Robinson erläutert uns die Fallstricke menschlicher Neurobiologie und weist uns den Weg in Form eines Kniffs: Nutzt das Liebeswerben und den Liebesakt selbst, um einander ins Gleichgewicht zu bringen - und natürliche Harmonie entfaltet sich von selbst!
Das Gift an Amors Pfeil untergräbt viele Annahmen über Sexualität und Liebe, die wir bislang für selbstverständlich gehalten haben und bietet uns ein Praxisprogramm für die Belegung einer tragfähigen Verbundenheit in Sexualität und Beziehung.

The site is getting so busy nowadays that a handfull of you has certainly noticed the short downtime one hour ago.
This time, we plead not guilty. It's simply our luck that 2 weeks after switching hosts, the new host has a complete router breakdown:
http://www.dreamhoststatus.com/2009/10/12/dreamhost-network-is-down/
Fortunately, it lasted less than 1 hour. So, we're back.... again!
Blessings.

Hello,
I just received a very kind private message, expressing concern about our recent technical problems and asking how they could generally help. It inspired me to start this discussion thread about all the ways you, regular members of this community, can help the whole site to thrive in every way.
We all benefit from Gary and Marnia's work. We benefit from the ability we have to blog and get support. We benefit from all the resources made available on this site.