Announcing and Forum Rules

News and announcements from Marnia Robinson, Gary Wilson and the web admins.

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Custom tool to track your progress: request for comments

Hello,

Sometimes, I find myself turning my thumbs, not too sure how to use my time best. It doesn't happen very often, but still, I could use this time constructively.

It also happens that at those times, I am thinking about you, awesome gals and guys, who are on an unorthodox discovery journey.

Forum spam advisory

Recently, we've seen somewhat of an increase in spam advertisements on the forum. People (or bots) post a comment to an article or forum topic that usually seems at least vaguely related to the topic, but is always very short and contains a link to an external site which they are trying to advertise. We delete such posts and ban the users as soon as we can, but you may still sometimes encounter them. Although some links may be completely innocuous, obviously, the security of any site linked to in a spam message is in question.

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Policy on forum etiquette

In the interest of fairness, here is some clarification about what is considered acceptable on this forum and what is considered grounds for curbing users.

Individual needs are important here, but not as important as the needs of the group as a whole. While wide-ranging discussions are encouraged, Reuniting has two primary purposes:

1. To explore the careful management of sexual energy, and
2. To heal old patterns that get in the way of closer, more nourishing union.

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Welcome to the "Habit to Harmony" Forum

This forum is for visitors to the "Reuniting" site, and readers of Cupid's Poisoned Arrow and Peace Between the Sheets.

Once you have joined the site, you will be able to comment on any forum post. To blog, contact me, and I will enable you to start your own threads on subjects you want to talk about. Blogging instructions.

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Please report abuse and spam

Hello,

We are trying hard to maintain a nice and safe area for people to share and learn.
Most notably, we often have to deal with spammers who register and post in these forums to promote gambling and pornographic web sites.

However, we are not always aware of everything that occurs within this site. We rely on you to repport any activity by any member that you would consider abusive. Please send us a mail or send us a private message and we'll promptly investigate the matter and deal with abuse.

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Amors vergifteter Pfeil

The German edition of Cupid's Poisoned Arrow will soon be available from Arbor Verlag. (Official release date: February, 2010)

Marnia Robinson
Amors vergifteter Pfeil

Cover Amors Pfeil trifft mitten in einen der primitivsten Teile unseres Gehirns. Folgsam verlieben wir uns, durchströmt von einem Feuerwerk leidenschaftlicher Gefühle, für eine Zeit lang gebunden... Und dann langt es uns miteinander, wir werden reizbar, unerreichbar und zerstreut. Wir versuchen unseren Geliebten umzuformen, suchen Trost bei anderen oder stürzen uns in eine neue Liebesgeschichte.

Warum bleiben Liebespaare nicht zusammen? Marnia Robinson erläutert uns die Fallstricke menschlicher Neurobiologie und weist uns den Weg in Form eines Kniffs: Nutzt das Liebeswerben und den Liebesakt selbst, um einander ins Gleichgewicht zu bringen - und natürliche Harmonie entfaltet sich von selbst!

Amors vergifteter Pfeil untergräbt viele Annahmen über Sexualität und Liebe, die wir bislang für selbstverständlich gehalten haben und bietet uns ein Praxisprogramm für die Belegung einer tragfähigen Verbundenheit in Sexualität und Beziehung.

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Today's downtime? We plead not guilty!

The site is getting so busy nowadays that a handfull of you has certainly noticed the short downtime one hour ago.

This time, we plead not guilty. It's simply our luck that 2 weeks after switching hosts, the new host has a complete router breakdown:
http://www.dreamhoststatus.com/2009/10/12/dreamhost-network-is-down/

Fortunately, it lasted less than 1 hour. So, we're back.... again!

Blessings.

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You can help: forum discussion

Hello,

I just received a very kind private message, expressing concern about our recent technical problems and asking how they could generally help. It inspired me to start this discussion thread about all the ways you, regular members of this community, can help the whole site to thrive in every way.

We all benefit from Gary and Marnia's work. We benefit from the ability we have to blog and get support. We benefit from all the resources made available on this site.

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How to talk to kids about porn

We have just created this audiobook addressed to boys, which explains some of the risks inherent in porn use. We hope it will allow youngsters to make informed choices about porn use. It's in MP3 format. If you click on this image, you can hear Gary narrating a bit of the book.

Learn more here:

Things You Didn't Know About Porn Press release with more information.

Click here to buy Things You Didn't Know About Porn


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We are back !

After a few chaotic days, we are at last back to full, normal operation. You are welcome to log in again: to your blogs!

You can use this thread to comment on your reuniting.info withdrawal symptoms!

Had we had the opportunity to plan ahead the migration, the downtime should not have lasted more than a few short hours. I could have arranged for the migration to take place at a time when most of you sleep, so you shouldn't even have noticed. Unfortunately, unexpected events forced our hands and we had to make some important decisions in a rush. And the downtime has been prolonged for days. For this, I sincerely would like to offer my apologies to all our regular members who haven't been able to use their blogs and the forum during the whole process.

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