Other issues for singles?

I discovered this by chance when reading something about Qi Gong. I'm learning as I go. It's a new experience for me so I'm curious if others find this works. I'm not going to intentionally test this. More tools are helpful. I'm guessing this could work with a partner too.

I would appreciate advice from males and females here!

Guys: Picture the scene, you're out, get chatting to an attractive woman, etc etc you see where I'm heading. Things start getting sexual but you're either still worried about E.D., performance anxiety, or just want to avoid orgasm due to re-booting.

How would you handle the situation?

Ladies: I am generally convinced that meeting someone while out always has to end in sex/one night stand, which I'm not much good at yet! So let's say you meet a guy while you're out. You like him, he likes you. What's on your mind?

EXCELLENT advice. I ♥ Harley.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IKxJGoJRTts

Anyone try this? Please post your experiences.

Note from Marnia. I decided to add a ♥ because this strikes me more as a relationship post than a recovery post...not that the two are always separate.

Hey,
I thought I'd share a small part of my story as a way of introduction. I didnt really feeling comfortable jumping onto another post and had no idea where to put it, so please move it if its not in a good spot.

BONDING
My first introduction to bonding behaviours really began with my first (and, so far, only) deep connection. Lets call her Star.

Dear forum members,
In what way you interpret me, up to you. But the issue is quite serious and complex.

i took a suggestion on here and went to a tantric dating site to look for potential partners but it turned (and i didn't realize) that they seem to be focusing even more on orgasm- how to have better but more natural ones i guess. I thought it was very different from karezza. That being said, the dating component of it seemed to be more like "friend finder" than looking for true dates. Just wanted to pass this along. does anybody have experience with tantric sex to explain the difference and why it seems like they focus on pleasure more than exchanges?

Hi. I'm Pinup.

I don't remember how I first found Reuniting, but it was at least a year ago. (Can you tell I'm a little shy?) Because of the way I look, objectification has been a near-daily experience for over half of my life, and it was a relief to find a site that doesn't shy away from the ugly truth about evolutionary biology's unpleasant tendency to screw up human interaction.

I've been reading the forums here partially because I'm tired of having intelligent discussion turn into someone hitting on me, and Reuniting clearly isn't that kind of place.

Hi,

I know this question is an oxymoron but bear with me.

I have given up completely from masturbation, ejaculation & porn for good. I do not ever want to release my semen unless I am having kids. I will have sex with any future partner but not ejaculate at all unless we are having kids.

I’ve got to reality check by rationalizing brain. I’m not talking at about porn abstinence. I have no interest in porn. Every now and then I get this nagging feeling that I could be somehow making more progress if I wasn’t as rigid about abstaining from orgasm and ejaculation. For me, sex isn’t that likely an immediate reality even if I found a partner. Perhaps that feeds my nagging brain. I more or less cannot experiment in any way because of that policy of abstinence. That isn’t necessarily bad as it keeps the dopamine from sexual inputs as low as possible.