Okay, I have just started dating this girl I talked about briefly in my last blog. We had a great time Thursday, went to a hockey game and she stayed over. I am reporting her observations to let you know this process seems to work, not to be arrogant. She says that I am "Sexy" and that I just make her crazy. We did have sex, briefly and I STILL held on to the chi. I think I may have to go out and jog a few miles and re-circulate afterward since it isn't that comfortable to have sex and not ejaculate. She couldn't make it to orgasm, but it was a nice trial run.