Oh, at the beginning everything was new and exciting. Like others on this site, I was even evangelistic and wrote a letter to the editor of a national magazine in both of our names touting Marnia’s book and karezza as "slow sex." And, the letter was published! Fortunately, we quickly figured out that no family members were likely to see it (whew!) And joked about how many phone calls we would get about it (To date, only 1.)