A few years back, I read most of the book Think and Get Rich. One aspect of the book that stood out, is that the author says that most successful men are married and they got married young. He basically said, these men we able to use the same energy that most men use to chase women and apply it to their business or what either other pursuit the were looking to achieve rather then trying to get laid. So when we look at women, one way to stop objectifying them, is to start seeing them as a potential wife rather than a "hook up" or a "lay".

I'm getting tired of being single. I walk by men and want to undress them and nibble on them. Maybe this is because I'm travelling, I'm in a big city - it feels impersonal and there's not much to do except go to museums, try to look hot, and objectify other people. After all, they've already objectified themselves, it seems like a full time job for everyone here.

I feel lonely, horny, and tired.