Submitted by AlexG on Thu, 2010-05-06 04:47
Just beginning here; looking for advice on which aspects of "fertilization sexuality" can be adapted to bonding, and which are just distracting holdovers which it would be best to remove from my practice (e.g. intercourse, ejaculation), but which are generally allowed here, if rarely or on a schedule, only because "we are human" and can't or don't really want to give them up. I know my own mind well enough from experience (e.g.
Submitted by Ahab on Mon, 2009-08-03 08:32
I'm looking for some pointers for having sex the first time with a new partner.
I found that with some partners it clicked right away, but more often it has to grow. And I was always wondering if we should talk about sex before we do it, or just do it. What do you think? And what is a good time for first sex (first date, 10th date)?
Submitted by Graham Mason on Wed, 2009-03-04 18:03
A while back I read a book by Dianne Richardson. She was a follower of Barry Long and Osho who after running workshops wrote a book call "The Love Keys". Later it got renamed as "The Heart of Tantric Sex". I took the book off the shelf the other day and found that much of the stuff is very related to what is discussed on this web site.
She now travels around running workshops for couples and has written another book on the subject for women. I was wondering if anyone else has had any experience or contact.
Here is a quote from her book: -
Submitted by spiritual_hardship on Sat, 2008-10-25 10:03
There is a war going, the warriors are my thoughts and feelings and I am the battleground. The two main fractions of the war are my idealistic spiritual self and my raw untamed animal self. The spiritual part of me seeks a path of cultivating and purifying my sexual energy, reaching for an enlightened state of love and unity. My animal self has only one goal.. To conquer and penetrate, and to do it as often, in as many ways possible and to as many women as possible.
