Why Do I Find Porn More Exciting Than A Partner? (our latest Psychology Today post)
This post covers sensitization which explains cravings, relapses, and why you can get harder and more excited for porn than a real partner.
It's really hard to get erections when I'm trying to [have intercourse]. Takes about 20 minutes or so to get it up. Really embarrassing. But if I'm sitting and watching my pornz, it's almost instant.—Porn user in his 20s