wet dreams

Day 40 update - subconsciencely resisting wet dreams.

It was day 36 into my current reboot attempt when I finally had a wet dream. The sexual urges have taken many twists and turns since I began. The first six days were the most intense. Day six was the tip of the iceberg. That was the day I craved a release more than ever. After day six, it began to subside until about day 11/12, where it peaked again. Then, through the teens, it then flatlined until day 20, where it peaked again. Throughout the 20's, it flatlined again. So those were the three sharp peaks in the urges during abstinance. Now I am on day 40.

My story

Hello to everyone,

This morning I discovered I have an urge to share my story and to get some feedback from other members if possible.
For the beginning I have to say that I'm 27 with very small sexual experience. I suppose that's the reason why
I'm here. I realized that the Internet porn ruined my desire to date with real woman and express my sexuality.
Since the young childhood I have footfetish but with Internet porn it has evolved to much more extreme form
than just footfetish. All the porn I watched is dealing with foot fetish and lingerie/pantyhose/stockings.

Day 30 First Wet Dream Question

I'm single guy in my mid 40's; and I am addicted to MO. I was doing MO every day for a long, long time. (P is not an issue for me...except for a couple of memories of videos from 20 years ago.)

I found yourbrainonporn.com and read about the benefits of stopping MO. I wanted to start a new lease on life.

Among other things, abstinence from MO has given me greater energy, better mood, deeper voice, clear mind, more confidence, better results in the gym, etc. However, the cravings have been intense at times. I thought I would explode below the belt.

[Day 100] Going commando - How ditching the underwear cured my wet dream problem

I have found that no longer wearing underwear helps me avoid the wet dreams which have visited me every 5 to 7 days in the past months.

This is day 100 PM free and day 8 O free which makes me and my colder regions very happy. Just chillin', baby!

I'm finally getting over the frustration of not having a girlfriend. At this point, partner or no partner, either way is fine, which I find very liberating.

Thank you reuniting!

Day 51 another wet dream, but doing fine

Community topics: 

So I've learned that having wet dreams are as much a part of reboots as blue balls or other withdrawal symptoms. Wet dreams are pretty much inevitable and it's what you do with them and how you prepare for and handle the chaser effect that will determine your success. I'm coming up on my goal of 60 days and I don't think I'm going to just quit after that. Just like a lot of us I will continue to put time between me and my last masturbation session and even more time between my last use of porn.

Quitting M+P

Hello everyone,

Wet Dreams

So been trying to give up porn and masturbation for a while now while always failing around the 27-30 day mark. Anyway I'm on day 8 and for the first time in my life ive had a wet dream. Now are these bad for recovery? are the healthy?

Never woken up so horny.

Enlisting the sub-conscious to help too

Dear Forum Members,

Like many of us, I have caused myself considerable problems as a result of excessive masturbation, porn and ejaculation over my lifetime. In my case, I have clearly cheated my spouse out of the terrfic love-making pleasure she deserves as a result. As a means to heal myself, I have been fortunate to embark on a regimen of hypnosis therapy with one of our forum members (NP Hypnotist). Her and I decided it may be interesting to share our therapy journey on this site.

Abstinence, Day 16

SICAS: Orange - 4

I've been seriously distracting myself for the last few days in order to counter the intensity (usually "Red - 5") of my impulses. Nevertheless, I have still managed to find some time to fantasize about some rather complex scenarios--though I have stopped mid-thought a number of times. Anyway, I have not masturbated, I have not used porn, I have not orgasmed. But my initial concerns about my ability to fantasize have proven to be well-placed, I think. In the past, this kind of fantasizing has usually led to my seeking out cyber-sex chat partners in short order.

Thinking Of Relapsing

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Anyone who reads my forum posts probably knows already that, after I have a wet dream, I often feel tempted to relapse on masturbating to porn.

Well, last night I had a wet dream about Bettie Page (if Bettie is watching down on us from above, she's probably flattered to know that the work she did in the sixties still gives 24 year old men in 2010 wet dreams). And now I'm trying to fight off the urge to relapse.

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