bonding behaviors

Last night we had a cuddling session and I heated it up a bit. This led to PIV and I didn't orgasm but Sparkles had a very quiet small orgasm that kinda crept up on her. Intercourse lasted about 15 minutes.

I almost came but resisted which wasn't difficult actually. I whispered to her that I was ready to go over the edge and I think she slowed down and it was subtle movements anyway. She came strictly from vaginal contact as there was no clitoral stimulation.

For some lucky reason i have had a flood of dating opportunities in the last few weeks. I have recently been dating a few girls and i thought id share my experiences of bonding behaviours, karezza, touch, sex etc while dating.

I figured it was time to post a blog entry about my ongoing efforts to introduce karezza lovemaking to my marriage where my wife has zero interest in sexual activity of any kind.

The guys at work have come up with a new term for me. I am a hug slut. They actually started using it for me before I slept with either of them, just because I am eternally searching for cuddles. I do mean sleeping with them by the way, not having sex with them. I slept with the first guy by accident. All three of us were spooning on a sofa bed watching a movie (I was staying in staff accommodation on the job, it is early in the season so there were only two of us working and then another guy who is an occasional staff member who stayed over a couple of times).

Today, a wonderful day, Golden Eagle kept his hands on my breasts as we lay in scissors and I felt a sustained flow of energy through my body. I had had this sense of sustained energy once before, but this was even longer. Imagine a calm spot, mossy green and brown, in a river. The sun lights up the patch that you are looking at and you can see clearly to the bottom: the rounded stones, the rich golden brown and green hues, a fish swimming lazily into view. The sunlight stays and stays and stays. That’s what it was like. It created well-being through my whole body.

It has been very interesting for me to contemplate the Taoist image of the boat and pilot and these words from CPA, Exchange Nineteen:

Quote:

The pilot uses kisses, touches, and the gentle movements of his body next to her to make her feel loved...Her sole responsibility is to relax and enjoy his creative touches and affectionate generosity...although she is welcome to offer nurturing, affectionate touch.

This has been a remarkable journey. We both began with some anxiety, having been celibate with each other for 5 years. Fortunately, the exchanges provided a lovely passage, helping us to rekindle desire and to prepare for a completely different form of sexual union.

We proceeded day after day through the exchanges, missing few days and repeating only a few exchanges. We made the transition to union and have been exploring this extraordinary territory ever since.