bonding

I'm guessing the purpose of most of us here, including myself, is to use Karezza as a way to bond with a partner and that through this approach, will hopefully find ever deepening love, sexual satisfaction and no more break-ups! However, I'm curious about what happens when/if a Karezza type relationship ends on its own (without falling back into the passion cycle).

I notice incredible heart energy present at times in my dream / lucid dream state. I say heart because I don’t know how else to describe it. It’s linked to sexual energy but not inherently sexual. I interact in ways that I’m not sure my conscious being could actually execute. The energy seems to morph the interactions in a fluid dance. Hesitancy or doubt of any form is gone. Vulnerability is absolute. Love is pure. Each step reinvigorates the process as if tiring is impossible. When I get into this world, I often don’t want to get out of bed because that will end the magic.

Perhaps I should introduce myself and how I ended up on this path. I am a single mother approaching 40 and after many passion cycles, long periods of sexless loving, breaking up with generally wonderful people, going through the subsequent confusion and pain, and ending up with a child (no, I don't regret that!) and an ever expanding 'what I want in a new partner list', I felt dumbfounded.

My husband and I had orgasmic sex last night. He was feeling very "needful" and I sort of got dragged along into the same mindset. knowing how much he misses doing certain things for me when it's been a while. This was his first in about 10 days, and maybe twice as long for me.

My relationship with my husband began in an unusual way. Starting just two days after we met (and immediately fell in love), we started sleeping together, in the literal sense, almost every night. I've always had trouble falling asleep, and was amazed at being able to do so while snuggled up with him, our arms intertwined. That had *never* worked with anyone else. Probably helped that this was the dead of winter

I’ll turn 70 at the end of the month and life is good. The whole family is coming out to a little watering hole in West Texas to celebrate. Still healthy – none of the major killers/robbers-of-quality-of-life have showed up. I’m still able to go out for a good long run or a bike ride or a yoga session nearly every morning. Still wake up with a woody nearly every day – and no steeeking Viagra, thank you. Still married after 40+ years with wonderful kids and a grandchild.

Once there was a boy who owned a fine boat. The boat was able to sail great distances and could navigate the most difficult waters, under the hand of a skilled pilot. The boy worked very hard to develop his skills and became very good sailing the waters of Bon Secour. One day he saw a beautiful girl and arranged a meeting with her. He fell in love and asked her to come live with him on his boat. She fell in love with him, too, and soon the two were living together happily.

My wife and I both take medication for high blood pressure. I have been for seven years, she for three. We measure and record our numbers regularly. A couple of months ago, we both noticed that our numbers were coming down. I have cut my medication to ¼ of the previous level while remaining in the normal range. Her numbers have declined to the low end of the normal range and her doc has told her she can quit taking the meds as long as her numbers remain good.