Submitted by Gregor on Mon, 2012-01-02 09:53
Hi, I have a couple of questions about sex during a reboot:
Doesn't real sex with a woman also cause a dopamine high? If yes, should real sex be avoided during a reboot?
In this context, I would like to know:
Is real sex with a prostitute bad during a reboot?
Is real sex with an ordinary woman bad during a reboot?
Does it make a big difference whether it is actual intercourse or oral sex or just an erotic massage?
Submitted by randomparticle on Sat, 2011-05-28 23:05
I have been a habitual user of porn for many years and it has completely destroyed my ability to get and maintain an erection during normal sexual intercourse. I finally decided to seek recovery when I started dating someone who I really connected with but with whom I have not been able to have sex due to ED after about 4 dates, even after using Cialis.
Submitted by ravenna on Fri, 2011-04-08 21:09
I'm sorry if this has been talked about before. If so, please point me to the right thread. Also there's a lot of extraneous information, and my question isn't entirely in one topic, so tell me if this should be moved to a different section of the forum (or if I should separate my questions into different threads).
Some background first:
Submitted by Marnia on Sun, 2010-10-10 09:22
[This is an abstract. We haven't yet seen the full study.]
Brody, Stuart
J Sex Med. 2010 Apr;7(4 Pt 1):1336-61. Epub 2010 Jan 15.
School of Social Sciences, University of the West of Scotland, High Street, Paisley PA1 2BE, UK.
Submitted by markthomas on Wed, 2010-08-25 16:58
Hey,
I stumbled on reuniting.info a half hour ago, and I'd been looking for a place to get some advice/support, so here goes, apologies for length (if you want to skip the story, just read the last paragraph for my question):
Submitted by AlexG on Thu, 2010-05-06 04:47
Just beginning here; looking for advice on which aspects of "fertilization sexuality" can be adapted to bonding, and which are just distracting holdovers which it would be best to remove from my practice (e.g. intercourse, ejaculation), but which are generally allowed here, if rarely or on a schedule, only because "we are human" and can't or don't really want to give them up. I know my own mind well enough from experience (e.g.
Submitted by Larry on Fri, 2009-06-19 10:39
The ch'ung mo, or thrusting channel rises from the base of the penis, goes up between the tu mo and jen mo channels and ends in the heart.—from "Taoist Yoga" by Charles Luk
Submitted by Larry on Tue, 2009-05-05 08:17
I had some ideas on oxytocin come to me this morning. I was about to type them into my journal, then I thought I might as well put these ones here to see if I can stimulate a conversation on this topic. I'm hoping you'll be able to add to my observations and enrich this topic beyond what have I come up with.
To start with, here are the basics---
Submitted by spiritual_hardship on Fri, 2008-11-21 04:16
So the last few days I've been breaking all my rules one after another. First on wednesday I watched some porn for the first time for about a month. Boredom was the driver who steered me to close to be able to escape the gravity of all the gorgeousness just waiting for me to appreciate it. I didn't masturbate, I just enjoyed the feelings of excitement and tried to exercise my abilities in controlling and transforming it. So in that respect it did serve a little bit of purpose. Then yesterday I did much of the same with masturbation without porn involved.
Submitted by spiritual_hardship on Mon, 2008-11-10 07:56
Hi
Last night my girlfriend was in the mood and we got the boggie on but my dancing skills have obviously suffered from this path of non-spillage. I was so hyper sensitive that just coming into her was about enough for me, I guess her wanting me to put on this vibrating penis ring didn't help much either. Well, I thought I had things somewhat under control anyway but that was before she got the contractions of an orgasm going on.. The orgasm isn't the same when what is going through your mind is "failure".
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