Persuading a partner to try karezza

Not sure how to approach a partner about karezza? Encountering resistance?

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General remarks

It's usually best not to try to persuade a partner. Initial resistance is high, and it will end up projected on you. That is, your partner may perceive that you are trying to take away his/her pleasure in life.

♥Incorporating the karezza into my new potential relationship

So, there is this guy that I've been seeing for four months. He's away now overseas but he's coming home in March. We've kept in contact and I've even mentioned my recent reading on the karezza smiley When I brought it up he acknowledged it as peaking as many times as possible, but I moved him towards the fact that it's not about going OVER, and emphasizing more of the emotional bonding side of things as well.

♥I Want Something Different...I Think...

Hello Everyone,

This is my intro post. I apologize if this is in a jumble because I'm not really sure of how to approach this subject.

♥Karezza Intro Video - Input Wanted

I am making a video that you can post in your online dating profile to show people that you are looking for karezza in a relationship.

It's going to be short: five minutes or so.

It's going to be light-hearted and funny. I want to present the concepts in a concrete way and stay away from floaty language that makes it hard to differentiate karezza from other sacred sex practices and which might make someone think it's a sexual style only for certain personalities and think, "Oh, that's not me."

♥my partner feels awkward when i mentioned karezza to him

Hi beautiful people! I hope my post wont be too confused, because now my mind and heart is full of thoughts and feelings and I dont know how to write all of them. So I will try.

♥ Soliciting advice

Hey everyone,
This is my first post, but I’ve been ‘lurking’ for a long time and have read CPA 2+ times. I’m also a Gnostic student, and first encountered these concepts, and Marnia’s writing, through my teachers. The experiences shared by everyone on this forum have been tremendous sources of support and encouragement in what can feel like an incredibly lonely path. Thanks to you all for being out there and sharing.

I would like to solicit advice on my personal situation; please let me know if I what I am sharing/asking is in any way not appropriate for this forum.

♥Finding a cuddle buddy

The problem with finding a cuddle buddy is that it seems like in every male-female relationship I've had, there is an imbalance of feelings. One of us would like to take it to the next level, but the other one doesn't. It seems guaranteed to cause hurt feelings when one person finds a legit dating relationship and leaves the cuddle buddy behind.

♥What should I say to my OkCupid dates?

Ok so. I am actively meeting people on OkCupid.

I decided I would feel comfortable talking about karezza on a second date. I'm pretty experienced at TMI/oversharing and I can usually make someone comfortable with me (or if he didn't seem comfortable and open, I would hold off).

But I need to know from the men, how should I present this idea? Should I put more emphasis on how I have personally chosen to forego orgasms because of the benefits to my reward circuitry or more on the loving connection I am looking for in a partner? Or what?

♥condoms for new partners and while learning this or even as birth control

what about new lovers and condoms?

okay, i'm in between relationships right now but lets say i meet a new partner and we decide to become intimate. First with a new partner i want to use protection until i know she is safe so to speak and that our relationship is going to more than a one night stand.

nocturnal pollutions

greetings. thru my life I have had many masturbations without woman. Recently due to this website and other website I was recommended to stop the mastrubations. however, as of this week I have had 7 noturnal pollutions which prevents me from stopping the masturbations.

Please advice me, what is the recommended way to avoid the nocturnal pollutions.

Thanks you for advice!

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