persuading a partner

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General remarks

It's usually best not to try to persuade a partner. Initial resistance is high, and it will end up projected on you. That is, your partner may perceive that you are trying to take away his/her pleasure in life.

Blue Balls!

Hi everyone -

I am in love with a wonderful man, but he isn't sure he wants to take the karezza path because he hates having blue balls. How do you avoid this condition? Any tips or techniques? I really want to stay in love...

Thank you

Kalagirl

Telling One's Partner

I recall reading on this site that one should be careful when bringing up non-orgasmic intercourse with ones partner. One should clearly be sensitive when opening up a dialogue about sexuality with someone. I'm just wondering if anyone has tips on how to present this issue to someone. This really isn't a current issue for me, but I'm curious.

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