uncooperative partner

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♥Day 0- 1572

Ok. This is my first stab at blogging. I've started at day 1572 (today) because that's about how long (4 years and 16 weeks) I've been exploring Marnia's ideas and inviting others to explore it with me. Finding a partner to do even 3 weeks of the non-sexual Exchanges is something that I have not yet been able to create. (This part of the Exchanges is important to me due to its potential effect on healing the effects of early childhood bonding trauma.) I'm looking forward to connecting with other members of this on-line community.

Demanding gf

Hi

It is a sensitive issue but I am in a problem and nothing like Internet to discuss things in anonymity. My problem is that my gf is one of those rare women who are multi orgasmic.

While this makes for great sex, but she wants more when I am spent. I feel bad for her as she remains unsatisfied. I have heard that there are some stimulants available which can make me ready for next rounds early.

how long is giving apropriate?

Hello there, I posted in the "Book"-Section about my story:
http://www.reuniting.info/node/1412
and I need help with the question above.

I KNOW that it is good to have an open heart, but is it still good for me in this situation to keep my heart open in his direction, while he is giving nothing back? We are far away from each other now, no physical contact, no date fixed, and very little contact at all right now. And I feel so drained and torn and hurt. What good is it to let good energy flow to him when it is just gobbled up?

What should I do? Help needed...

Hello everyone. I've been lurking around the forums and website for several months, reading around.
Now I feel it's the time to stop lurking, for I have something that is getting beyond my control.

Only one partner avoiding orgasm

I would be curious to know what you say of
1. both parties practicing
2. Only the man
3. Only the woman

man with sensitive breasts

Help!

Early in my marriage, I asked my wife not to touch my breasts and neck. When we were having sex (with ejaculatory/orgasmic intent), and she touched me there, it consistently felt uncomfortable. I did not have a word for the sensation that fit quite as well as your "fish food" analogy (which I discovered only recently). Out of respect for my request, she stopped touching my breasts and neck. I appreciated that. Years passed.

my husband isn't interested cont...

Hello it's Rosa again,

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I hope to get some reply soon but unitl then wanted to add a few more thoughts. My husband believes that he is an animal first and that he needs to have is sex drive satisfies before he could possibily penetrate me without wanting an orgasm. I jsut don't know what to say to him at these times. He argues very strongly and I jsut get left feeling that he's not ging to change and doesn't want to hear what i have to say. He thinks it absurd that I'm reading about how to exchange energies in a sexual relationship.

my husband isn't interested cont...

I hope to get some reply soon but unitl then wanted to add a few more thoughts. My husband believes that he is an animal first and that he needs to have is sex drive satisfies before he could possibily penetrate me without wanting an orgasm. I jsut don't know what to say to him at these times. He argues very strongly and I jsut get left feeling that he's not ging to change and doesn't want to hear what i have to say. He thinks it absurd that I'm reading about how to exchange energies in a sexual relationship.

my husband isn't interested

hello Marnia and anyone else who reads this,

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