frustration

♥frustration, no sexual energy. (female, not a porn post)

Hi, I don't know if this is the right place to post this, but the truth is I need help and don't know where to find it...
I think the easiest would be to tell my sexual history to bring you more understanding of my very unconfortable situation.

I have been sexual very young, starting everyday masturbation around 8 and frequent intercourse at 13, and have abused my body with giving it to anyone i thought would bring me love in return, with disastrous consequences in my self esteem and a lot of too speedy, unloving sex all my life.

Day 14 - Watched porn, got frustrated

I have been feeling good the last days and I have believes of the good feelings comes from my brain becoming more balanced; all the neurochemichals are equalizing to a normal level etc. However, I still think that you can have a bad day, even with a balanced brain. And thats what I'm having today.

My day was pretty crappy from the start and I got stuck by the computer just idling. And then I decided to have a short peak at some porn clips (its so easy accesable), which I did. Maybe I just looked for five minutes or so but I got pretty stimulated by it.

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Dealing with anger.

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Returning to Bad Habits

For a variety of reasons, I've been returning to some really bad habits recently. Looking at porn! I've justified in my head that I have control over what I'm doing but I'm probably playing a little too close to the edge. 3 times in the last 4 days. Today there was no hesitation - got home from work, computer turned on and straight onto the porn sites. Haven't reached orgasm from the porn so I'm taking that away as a BIG positive. Although I did have my latest wet dream last night - that makes 4 in the last 6.5 weeks now.

My girlfriend is not fully satisfied with non-orgasmic sex

Hi there. Me and my girlfriend have been trying non-orgasmic sex for a while now, and although I will detail more of our experiences in another post, I have a few questions.

In terms of satisfaction with non-orgasmic intercourse, I am completely happy. I feel nourished, and I feel like my sexual energy has been transferred/transformed in a very fulfilling way. The story with my girlfriend is different however.

Curious, but confused...

Hi,
I am new to this site and am very fascinated by the concepts presented here. I would like to read the book, but have a lot of questions to ask because I am very confused. I'm 23 and am comparatively new to sex (I've been having sex for 3 years with the same man.) I just started to have orgasms during sex for about a year and am ecstatic about it. I want to try this form of sex to bring my boyfriend and I closer, but the thought of never having another orgasm again terrifies me, especially after wanting them for so long.

So my question is:

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