Submitted by freedom on Tue, 2011-09-13 23:29
I heard an interesting tidbit today. Many of the PUA guys don’t want casual hookups, but want real relationships. Those that want casual sex are often not fully honest about their motivations. Focusing on the relationship seekers, it seems many are looking to use the women they pick up as a tool for their own self-growth, sadly measured by the number of women they sleep with. The name of the game is going through the motions and getting better in the process, but they measure that with their egos.
Submitted by freedom on Fri, 2011-07-29 23:18
Submitted by Telepathy on Sun, 2011-04-24 19:39
I am wondering if some karezza veterans could answer some logistical questions about how they go about the practice with their partners-
Things I am wondering about are:
1. Position(s)- what position do you find best for karezza? How do you proceed to get into it? Are there any subtle aspects to the position that you have noticed that would be helpful to know about?
2. Soft vs. hard entry- is there a certain percentage of times you do one or the other?
3. Foreplay- how do you begin karezza sessions? Do you have oral stimulation? Kissing?
Submitted by Telepathy on Sat, 2011-04-23 14:19
I am wondering if anyone knows of the existence of a sort of karezza-based singles site? Or has any ideas on how to establish a relationship with someone interested in karezza?
I am reading "Karezza Ethics of Marriage" by Alice Bunker Stockham- it is so obviously my relationship path- I've never before experienced the exact union of my spiritual ideals with sexuality- it is amazing-
Submitted by Telepathy on Tue, 2011-04-05 17:03
I just discovered Karezza and this site yesterday- it is really inspiring- I am 36 this month- I have not had good experiences with relationships and sex in the past, and have largely avoided them for that reason- but now I feel strongly impelled to form an intimate partnership with a woman- it is an intense hunger, and I know it will happen- but preparing for this is causing me to face poor experiences from the past- that healing quest is what led me to discover Karezza- I searched for the term "spiritual sex" and found Karezza and this community- I've come to the right place, for sure- b
Submitted by KOS-MOS on Thu, 2010-08-19 00:02
Well, I figured I'd write something new after seeing what happened to my last one. Is that some sort of record around these parts?
Submitted by TommyMaddox on Wed, 2010-07-21 13:22
I have a significant other who I love very deeply. I've realized from incidents in my past (porn use, infidelity) that I need to be very careful about going through the dopamine craving periods as that's when I'm more vulnerable to acting in a way sexually that I would prefer not to. My partner and I went through a period recently (as a test) where we don't orgasm. During that time I felt more stable emotionally than I have in a long time. I really enjoyed the experience.
Submitted by Brenmal on Mon, 2010-05-31 10:10
I've been dipping into "Sex and Love: Addiction, Treatment, and Recovery" By Eric Griffin-Shelley, 1997
Here are some points about the addiction and why it may be harder for recovering sex addicts to form intimate relationships. From the opening pages:
Submitted by wendyomatik on Thu, 2010-02-25 12:08
Radical Love & Relationship Workshop
Thurs., March 4th at 6:30PM
The Ugly Mug Cafe
4640 Soquel Dr., Soquel, CA 95073
Tel: 831.477.1341 (Alex)
$20-10, sliding scale, Everyone welcome
Map info: http://www.cafeugly.com/
WORKSHOP DESCRIPTION:
Submitted by Daffy Duck on Sat, 2010-02-13 22:03
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When I first got here to Reuniting I was looking for ways to balance Yin energy. The only reason I was looking to balance Yin Energy is because I had read that due to excessive masturbation, which I was doing, there are physical changes that result in the body.
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