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First time sex with new partner

Mon, 2009-08-03 15:32 — Ahab

I'm looking for some pointers for having sex the first time with a new partner.

I found that with some partners it clicked right away, but more often it has to grow. And I was always wondering if we should talk about sex before we do it, or just do it. What do you think? And what is a good time for first sex (first date, 10th date)?

First Posts and Comments

Mon, 2009-03-09 15:41 — neil

Here is a link to my first and 2nd posts:

http://www.reuniting.info/node/2126

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Day 64 or day 11

Tue, 2009-01-27 07:48 — Soulsearching

Today it is 64 days since i made my new bottom line mark. No porn, no masturbation(self inflicted orgasm)

I maintained my sobriety these 64 days. For this i am grateful to the SAA and SLAA communities. I am also grateful for all people on this site and to Marnia for hosting it and sharing her insights on brain chemistry and so on. I am also grateful to the higher power or God or whatever you want to call it.

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I'm sorry that I underestimated you...

Tue, 2008-11-11 14:20 — spiritual_hardship

That title goes out to my girlfriend. We lay awake talking deep into the night(more like morning). I don't know why but she seemed to have a whole other level of understanding of what I was trying to do last night. Wich led me into sharing more open heartedly all my reasoning behind my motivation for doing so. I even told her about how my body at times(more frequently then I'll ever admit to) wanted me to go out and have sex with other women. And I explained how this was not what I really wanted but a function of my primitive mind.

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