Well, I figured I'd write something new after seeing what happened to my last one. Is that some sort of record around these parts?

Greetings. I discovered this site a few months ago. After going over it for a few days I decided to stop masturbating, along with a friend of mine. I started halfway through 13 years old (late from the looks of things). I didnt start doing it everyday until 16 or so, and even then theres been years where I dont feel compelled to masturbate more then every 2 or 3 days. Not the case the last 3 or 4 years, but VERY rarely do I do it more then once a day. I'm not sure why, but maybe its because I have had and do have a handful of other addictions that keep me satieted. Im now 25.

hi everyone, its been a while,

anyway, just stopping through to kinda just give an update to whats been going on in my life. Well, i have kinda been having some stuff going on with a close family member. she kinda disappeared on me recently and has yet to return home. other than that major dilema, things are just kinda "blah".

I found this site about 15 months ago. In this time, the following changes have occured in my marriage and my life:

1. My wife and I resumed having sexual intercourse after 4 plus years of celibate marriage
2. I have not masturbated in almost one year. For many months before that, I did it ritually and maybe once per month in a misguided belief that the pipes needed to be cleaned. I have absolutely no desire to masturbate.
3. I have not ejaculated in 7 months. I no longer have any desire to ejaculate, even if I get overheated during intercourse.

Catch The Wind (Version II)
Donovan
This song does it for me.

It's by Donovan.

In the chilly hours and minutes
Of uncertainty
I want to be
In the warm hold of your lovin' mind.

To feel you all around me
And to take your hand
Along the sand,
Ah, but I may as well try and catch the wind.

When sundown pales the sky
I want to hide a while
Behind your smile,
And everywhere I'd look, your eyes I'd find.

For me to love you now
Would be the sweetest thing,
'T would make me sing,
Ah, but I may as well try and catch the wind.

Diddy di dee dee diddy diddy,

Hello all,

I've been a silent lurker on this site for about a year now. Ergo, I've been living with the knowledge that I am an addict for the same period of time.

I keep attempting to begin my blog, I start and never seem to make much sense, usually it is through writing that I find understanding and clarity. This topic though is still bouncing around in my brain. I am a married 40ish American German and Swedish woman living on the West coast.

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4640 Soquel Dr., Soquel, CA 95073
Tel: 831.477.1341 (Alex)
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Thurs., Feb. 4th at 7PM
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Hello, dear all!

Two and half years ago I found that web site and I was fascinated! Several days ago i saw the book of Marnia "Peace between the sheets" in Sofia, Bulgaria, in Bulgarian language! Wow! i bought it in this very instant, of course and read it within two-three days!

I would like to share my experience: