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♥Single parenting and courting towards Karezza

Are there any single parents out there wanting to start or are already in a new relationship practicing bonding-based sex or Karezza? I'm starting this blog to invite some ideas and explore some questions I have (and maybe you have) as a single parent wanting to find a partner that wants to practice Karezza.

How do you find someone who wants to experiment with the exchanges when just the commitment to that experiment (if you follow the 'sleeping together every night' suggestion) also requires commitment to being part of a family?
How do you manage a longer period of courtship?

♥Desperate on my relationship

I'm new here, I don't even know if this is the right place to put my thread, but anyways I'll just tell my story in case someone wants to read or have something to suggest.

3 months have passed, and things aren't going so well at the moment.

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I have been together with my girlfriend for three months. I thought that everything was going well between us, but two days ago, she started asking me if I thought we'd have a future together... and it went gradually downhill from there. Currently, our relationship is not completely broken off, even after we had a rather heated argument in which I told her we were through and I didn't want to see her ever again, but we have temporarily put it on hold until we decide if we still want to be together.

The source of her concerns are basically two things:

21 days without m/o 20 without p. relationship break is coming to an end -unsure what to do next?

I'll try and keep this as brief as possible.
Basically my girlfriend who I had been seeing since the very start of the year called me up 3 weeks ago (tomorrow) and said she wasn't sure about the relationship, couldn't decide what was the best thing to do as she didn't want to have regrets etc. She tried to blame herself, saying she felt guilty that she didn't spend enough time with me. She went on to say it didn't feel like a 'proper relationship' which I can understand as a proper relationship involves sex.

I'm the Devil's Advocate here

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And I do accept the role. Btw, I'm at day 6 of not PMO and doing ok. But it's not the main topic of this post.
I read the answers to this guy here: http://www.reuniting.info/node/6972. I am overwhelmed by the total opposition to sex without feelings, like he was (is?) going to have and as I agreed he should. I didn't expect to be in the majority of course, but not in a so small minority (basically I'm alone).

♥Been awhile

Hi everyone

I have not posted a blog entry in months. I have had a lot of changes since my last entry in my blog. I guess I will jump into a few things quickly.
I see a lot of new names on the site now. I see a few that I know as well. For those that put up with my whining and despair and kept pushing me thank you. All of my pain and fighting with my addiction and mental mess has made a big leap forward. Learning to deal with my porn addiction and masturbation addiction allowed me to receive someone in my life. Yes I am in a relationship with a wonderful women.

Notes to My Love

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Going to Work

I cross over the ridge top, leaving the Eel River
I'm dropping down, halfway up the canyon side, headed towards the Russian.
Old oaks, manzanita, fir acroos the way, grass, and blackened areas from summer fires.

I am 45 minutes and 20 miles from home
I feel it in the center of my chest, a pulling on my breast bone.
Then a slight thrilling chill passes though my body
Followed by a feeling of happy/sadness
Happy to love you so, sad to be leaving.

This is what happens to me as I pass through that invisible barrier

Got side tracked on previous project, good reason though lol

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I was in the middle of writing transcripts and such for a youtube page to spread the message on porn and such. I met a gal though, and that totally got derailed smiley. I hang out with her alot, and between that and college stuff, and making dinner for my mom I got all tied up. Not to mention the free time I usually am writing poetry for the gal.

♥Desire

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19 months on the path, kind of

Keith Shein "Rumors Of Buildings To Live In" wrote:

Never enough.
Now the boy wonders if he has the right desires,
what a better man might want,
whether there's a desire more pure.

Thinking about y'all

uhh what day am i at anyway lol

hi everyone, its been a while,

anyway, just stopping through to kinda just give an update to whats been going on in my life. Well, i have kinda been having some stuff going on with a close family member. she kinda disappeared on me recently and has yet to return home. other than that major dilema, things are just kinda "blah".

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