I am blog-naive, so my first post was not initially private, as I had assumed...in case a non-member is reading this post without having seen the first, I shall provide the short explanation of why I am writing here.

1. I have an anal sex/anal porn fixation but I have never actually had anal sex
2. I am in a marriage where both partners have been faithful, but I am plagued with infidelity fantasies
3. I want to preserve relationship harmony, but I cannot control mood swings, irrational anger, and occasional feelings like 'my wife is the wrong woman for me'