Submitted by Zia on Sat, 2012-02-11 23:50
I'm guessing the purpose of most of us here, including myself, is to use Karezza as a way to bond with a partner and that through this approach, will hopefully find ever deepening love, sexual satisfaction and no more break-ups! However, I'm curious about what happens when/if a Karezza type relationship ends on its own (without falling back into the passion cycle).
Submitted by Zia on Thu, 2012-01-19 01:06
Are there any single parents out there wanting to start or are already in a new relationship practicing bonding-based sex or Karezza? I'm starting this blog to invite some ideas and explore some questions I have (and maybe you have) as a single parent wanting to find a partner that wants to practice Karezza.
How do you find someone who wants to experiment with the exchanges when just the commitment to that experiment (if you follow the 'sleeping together every night' suggestion) also requires commitment to being part of a family?
How do you manage a longer period of courtship?
Submitted by kurisu on Mon, 2012-01-16 20:52
Hi everybody,
Scholar Girl, the woman I've been chatting with for awhile now, has de-friended me on facebook. Facebook was our means of communication. I am a mess. It sounds so immature for a 30-year-old, but it's true. I really can't handle these kinds of things. I don't know how not to make this be about me (which it probably isn't). I even thought we were becoming good friends.
Submitted by freedom on Mon, 2011-12-26 23:05
This has come up here indirectly and in some of my own dialogue with people elsewhere. How realistic is it really for two people to be cuddle buddies and it not eventually break down into sex? Personally, I could commit to limited touching with the only exception being that I'd want dialogue channels to be open so that if my mind wanders it could be discussed. This probably can't work if people can't relax into themselves as that tension will likely lead to sex.
Submitted by freedom on Fri, 2011-12-23 09:30
I was going to rant a bit about online dating but that’s not going to be productive. I’ve got a bit of a pattern that exists both in real life and in the online dating world. I can generate enough interest to get interaction going, but the only time anything progresses overall seems to be when the woman initiates. Even in real life, it could be that I’ll say something a woman latches onto and then that can lead to interesting discussions. I've crafted my online profile for that to happen and it has, but I wouldn't yet call that a great success.
Submitted by Me2.0 on Wed, 2010-02-03 13:42
For the past year, I've dedicated my energies towards creating a happier life and developing a set of core philosophical principles that will aide me in my early years of adulthood. One of my core beliefs was that to avoid boredom I needed to do things that weren't necessarily me. In other words I wanted to get uncomfortable and to experience new things. I lived in a different country for a year, flew kites, attempted to meet people at clubs and bars, dressed differently, changed my usual conversation topics, performed stand up comedy, and unsuccessfully tried to get into relationships.
Submitted by Discordia on Wed, 2009-01-28 18:10
I have a question for the men here who are struggling with porn addiction. It seems quite clear to me that there is an extreme shortage of women participating on this forum, as well as women signing up to be Courtly Companions. I've heard that many women may not feel comfortable talking with a man they do not know about this kind of problem, privately or publicly on the forum.
