Tracking the hangover after sexual satiety

After about 80 days of no PMO I had sex, and the chaser got the better of me. The sex was great and I saw a lot of improvements - firm erection, increased sensitivity, etc. - although I binged and watched porn for hours the next day. In the past week I've had about four PMO sessions and had sex twice. I definitely felt a difference after watching porn, e.g. I struggled to maintain an erection, decreased sensitivity, typical shit. I'm not getting down on myself because I'm back at college now and I'm more disciplined when I'm on a schedule.

Is there any connection between the neurochemical changes and either the memory of the interaction that led to the changes or memory of the changes themselves? It seems there must be some connection as some reward circuitry purpose is to make us observe, recall, and seek what is important. But is that recall in our memory or somewhere else? If it is memory based, can the memory trigger an ongoing neurochemical drip? Do we store the memory of the interaction and later high, low, soothing, etc. feeling together or separately?

So, yesterday I masturbated to orgasm after 23 days without any PMO and am very aware and wary of the chaser effect. I've already felt it in the past day. My question(s) are - does the potency of the chaser effect ever fade with time? Or does it stay as strong after every orgasm? Is it different with a partner vs. solo?

I had some annoy today, whenever I try to piss next to another guy after recent orgasm I can't.

Don't laugh because I swear it is the reason! It is only a problem when orgasm was in the last few days. Otherwise I could stand back and arch the stream! .gif" alt="smiley"/>

Last night I had a date with my Love. He's always been a fabulously affectionate lover (the whole couple of months we've been having sex), but last night was so wonderful that I wondered if he'd spent some time on this site studying up on Kerazza. I intended to not have an orgasm, really I did. And I held off for a long time. But then there it was in all it's glory, overtaking me like a sneaker wave that just didn't want to put me back down on the sandy beach. It may have been the longest, strongest, most intense orgasm I've ever had.

I have spent the previous three years single, but sexual, using my massager maybe two or three times a week, sometimes going without for several weeks at a time. I've now had a partner for almost three months and have been so disturbed by how hungover I've felt after being with him that I googled "Sex Hangover" and found this site that way. I am both thrilled that the knowledge on this site is available, and sooooo sad that after years of being partnerless that now we have to reign in our sexuality (orgasm wise) or risk losing one another.

Hey again, I recently posted my Life story on Porn but have ran into a few issues. Today is Day 15 of NO PMO at all! So far it has been very easy for me to control my urges. I don't even think twice about logging online for P. However, In these 15 days I haven't had ONE erection including mornings. It seems my libido is at a all time low, even dangerously low. I feel like physically I'm not there at all, however mentally I still constantly thinking awful thoughts when I seen pretty woman. I even day dream about woman without even realizing it. Is this normal?

No MB and no P, and i believe things are going well. I'm starting to feel better, my whole outlook on life, i feel more energy, not all the time, but better than before. I feel more outgoing, more positive perspectives on life. My goal has always been to normalize my sex drive, i feel that porn has been a huge factor in taking it away from me. 22 days in and i can def get more aroused just by looking at a women, its not where i want it to be. However im still a very short distance in. I know some have said it can take 6 weeks, even 3 months to become fully better.

Was just wondering, i know there are a lot of different opinions on dream O's.

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