Submitted by RecoverED on Tue, 2011-12-06 15:22
Submitted by Anonymous on Tue, 2011-11-15 21:09
Well well well.. Marnia.. hahaha.. I got something for u.. I think I have reached the tipping point of all this PMO stuff.. my last relapse really hit me hard.. (no pun intended) .. This is what I did
Submitted by Terminus on Wed, 2011-11-02 16:13
Well as of writing this I am about halfway through day 7. Definitely the hardest (pun intended) day so far. I couldn't sleep last night from all the sexual frustration. I've been feeling what I think is horny (honestly I almost don't remember, it's been so long) and just let myself go. I've been trying to avoid any fantasy and certainly any "flashbacks" of porn except for thinking about potential mates or someone I actually know in real life who I am interested in. My mind wandered a bit, I allowed myself to relax and I ended up with quite an erection.
Submitted by Parky on Thu, 2010-12-23 06:27
In this forum and in CPA it mentioned that pair bonders are socially but NOT SEXUALLY monogamous. For example:
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Submitted by Brenmal on Thu, 2010-06-17 12:32
I've been working really hard this week. I had a late night followed by a business meeting in a part of town close to where I used to visit a brothel. On the way home I was really tired. I've been really good for over a month. No porno, no prostitutes, karezza with my wife regularly. But, tell you the truth I was tempted as I drove past, but I didn't go in.
Submitted by Tomato on Wed, 2010-05-26 22:09
SICAS: Orange - 4
I've been seriously distracting myself for the last few days in order to counter the intensity (usually "Red - 5") of my impulses. Nevertheless, I have still managed to find some time to fantasize about some rather complex scenarios--though I have stopped mid-thought a number of times. Anyway, I have not masturbated, I have not used porn, I have not orgasmed. But my initial concerns about my ability to fantasize have proven to be well-placed, I think. In the past, this kind of fantasizing has usually led to my seeking out cyber-sex chat partners in short order.
Submitted by RedDragon on Wed, 2010-04-07 18:21
Tomorrow will be 3 weeks since I last masturbated. I've only had one tough day that followed a dream where I was looking at porn that I thought I had erased. The glimpse of porn made me really horny in my dream but I couldn't masturbate in time before the scene changed. In reality, I did erase the porn! Anyway, I got through that day and it's been fairly smooth sailing so far.
Submitted by relearning on Tue, 2009-09-08 10:39
Well, I found this site in response to wondering why my husband brought up the topic of divorce a few hours after intense, joyful love-making. It seemed such bad timing; I mean, why not bring it up after an intense argument? Now I know better, and I more fully understand his exhaustion and depression in mood (coupled with increased anxiety) on the days following orgasm.
Submitted by Aphrodites Chela on Wed, 2009-04-22 07:27
I live a rather insular rural life. At home I am involved with my wife, and in town I always see someone I know.
Monday and Tuesday I was alone and anonymous in the city. The temptations abound. 96 degree heat and the college girls aren't wearing much clothes. The working women are looking really smart in their suits. So many interesting people on the tram. Will she look?
Complimentary cocktails at the hotel. Who's at the bar?
Lonely boredom. Who's alone? staying the night?
Cable TV and broadband internet...just keep clicking.
