celibacy karezza

♥ - Is a cuddle buddy a realistic possibilty?

This has come up here indirectly and in some of my own dialogue with people elsewhere. How realistic is it really for two people to be cuddle buddies and it not eventually break down into sex? Personally, I could commit to limited touching with the only exception being that I'd want dialogue channels to be open so that if my mind wanders it could be discussed. This probably can't work if people can't relax into themselves as that tension will likely lead to sex.

Enlisting the sub-conscious to help too

Dear Forum Members,

Like many of us, I have caused myself considerable problems as a result of excessive masturbation, porn and ejaculation over my lifetime. In my case, I have clearly cheated my spouse out of the terrfic love-making pleasure she deserves as a result. As a means to heal myself, I have been fortunate to embark on a regimen of hypnosis therapy with one of our forum members (NP Hypnotist). Her and I decided it may be interesting to share our therapy journey on this site.

Making It To Day 110

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April 30th was day 111 (26 days since last dream orgasm) of my commitment to orgasmic renunciation. Yvette drove down to celebrate Beltane with me, and, assuming we hit it off, I had to decide what to do about my non-orgasmicality. Talking to her, I got more of a sense of what others were talking about when they would describe the difficulty of getting their partner on board with Karezza. Before talking to her about it, I guess I had the foolish notion that since *I* was so on board with the idea, that all potential partners would also be.

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