Submitted by kingofsat on Tue, 2010-11-30 09:06
I am a very health 18 year old, who weight trains, eats very healthily and get's a good amount of activity.
I don't smoke, i rarely drink, i OCCASIONALLY smoke marijuana ( which actually seems to help my problems i am about to describe )
I've masturbated in some way or another for nearly all my life, even when i was a very small child i used to grind against pillows to achieve orgasm - and by the time i was 14 i started watching porn videos and masturbating 'properly'. This is when i soon noticed extremely worrying signs with my sexual performance.
Submitted by t88 on Sun, 2010-10-17 07:42
Hello, im not one to make posts on forums, more of a reader, but i just realised that im just over 2 months away from not self inducing orgasm/ejaculation (i.e not masturbating or having intercourse) in 2010.
Hopefully, this can help someone who was like me. I was always searching for something to read that would help me get out of the whirlwind that i was in, because from the inside i know the future looks bleak. But now that im out, i can tell you that its not.
Submitted by davidphd1866 on Thu, 2010-07-29 17:10
Today I completed my second session with "NP Hypnotist" using hypnosis as an adjunct to my overall efforts. Our first session focused on attaining the deeply relaxed state, while the second one dealt specifically with the notion of omitting ejaculation from my sexual practices--en route to a Karezza lifestyle.
Submitted by davidphd1866 on Mon, 2010-05-10 11:35
I am not sure how helpful this will be, but as Marnia says--all data is good data.
I recently went six weeks without ejaculating. I felt ALL of the benefits that we talk about in this forum. I felt better, my wife and I enjoyed some great bonding activity, etc. etc. My plan was to continue indefinately. I was simply enjoying a better way. Not only that, the "urge" was very small. After about the three week mark things settled down nicely and it was fairly simple to continue.
Submitted by Cupid on Sun, 2009-12-27 15:36
The Goal; To give up orgasms, for 21 Days
(From experience at previous attempts. For me to have any hope, I WILL GIVE UP: masturbating & pornography too)
I have been using my journal recently but I have decided to post my goals, both to help myself and to help others. This may give me more motivation to succeed knowing others maybe observing my progress.
Submitted by thunderous_lies on Thu, 2009-08-13 16:16
I know that there is the 3 week thing, that after that amount of time it gets easier not to have to indulge in a self degrading habit, being orgasm and ejaculation. I could not seem to break out of a weekly cycle. I was able to really do well. I was finishing a second week which made me proud. But I had great trouble controlling my thoughts and my pants. I would be up for hours trying to quell the hunger. I was about to go on a week long church program for youth and knew that if I could hold myself till then, that week would be a free 1 week and I would be over the hill.
Submitted by eyeforsynchronicity on Wed, 2009-06-24 12:16
Hi everyone,
I've been practicing ejaculation control for many years now. I turn 30 later this year, and I've finally got the hang of it - relatively speaking. Slip-ups are inevitable, but I can go for weeks at a time, transmute sexual energy, and feel tremendous (energy-wise as well as in a general spiritual sense) while doing so.....
