♥SEX ON TUESDAY: An orgasmic rollercoaster

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Submitted by Marnia on

OK, this surprised me. A woman actually acknowledging a noticeable neurochemical shift after orgasm.

By Soojin Chang | Columnist

I left his house Sunday morning in a daze. I was physically exhausted, and the inevitable migraine was looming, but the rays of sunlight and cool breeze from the pier perpetuated my high.

♥My first post: bonding, passion, drama, dysfunction, peace, desire (long story)

Submitted by westgate on

Note from Marnia. I decided to add a ♥ because this strikes me more as a relationship post than a recovery post...not that the two are always separate.

I thought I'd share a small part of my story as a way of introduction. I didnt really feeling comfortable jumping onto another post and had no idea where to put it, so please move it if its not in a good spot.

My first introduction to bonding behaviours really began with my first (and, so far, only) deep connection. Lets call her Star.

♥frustration, no sexual energy. (female, not a porn post)

Submitted by wyoming on

Hi, I don't know if this is the right place to post this, but the truth is I need help and don't know where to find it...
I think the easiest would be to tell my sexual history to bring you more understanding of my very unconfortable situation.

I have been sexual very young, starting everyday masturbation around 8 and frequent intercourse at 13, and have abused my body with giving it to anyone i thought would bring me love in return, with disastrous consequences in my self esteem and a lot of too speedy, unloving sex all my life.

♥Day 22 - Negativity and Concerns

Submitted by Nicholas on

I'm not feeling good today. I'm not sure why.

I have the same feeling of being in a "trance" that I'd get after watching pornography, where it's like I'm unaffected by everything around me... disassociated. I feel like a "blank stare," and have a lack of inner coherance. It's not nice! The last time I felt like this was after my last relapse, 22 days ago, when I joined the forum. Have any of you guys felt like this?

I've had a lot of negativity going through me. Anger (rage). Confusion. Worry. Paranoia. Feelings of hate and blame towards the world.

♥Introduction - Day 11 :) (tried Karezza)

Submitted by Nicholas on

I've been watching porn and masturbating since I was 14. I'm now 25. Throughout my teenage years and into my twenties, I'd masturbate to porn on a daily basis. Sometimes I'd PMO more then once a day - sometimes up to four times in a day. Writing this, I realize just how much that is! For about 10 years, the same, everyday. No wonder I'm addicted!

♥How do you keep karezza "warm" so it doesn't get too "hot?"

Submitted by Karezza Korner on

(tornfromabook) We like to take deep breaths together when we stop moving. And sometimes there is a little giggling. Smile

(wfk007) Practice, practice, practice. It took us a few times to really start to get it. After a while there are things that happen in karezza that are better than orgasm—which is a good incentive. There is an energy transfer that can be amazing. There is also a relaxation response I get sometimes which is better than meditation. But that has come from practicing (and what a terrible thing to have to do, lay naked with a beautiful women!)