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It's official - "Compulsive Sexual Behavior Disorder" is now in the World Health Org's diagnostic manual

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Submitted by Marnia on

CSBD is an umbrella term that can be used to diagnose people struggling with porn addiction and sex addiction.

The ICD-11 is the most recent edition of the WHO's International Classification of Diseases, used by doctors worldwide. No doubt the DSM-5 (the mental health manual often promoted/used in the States...because the APA makes money from holding its copyright) will have to follow suit...eventually.

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Opening Post from newbie ..................

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Submitted by peteraloha on

Dear gentle souls stumbling on this post:

Decades of obsession with orgasm, pushed around by hormonal urges (that is what they felt like), and repeated struggles with partners who either didn't meet my voracious appetite (sexual needs/urges) or, somehow failed my criteria to trigger arousal and sexual desire.................here I am, posting this at age 65, happy about sharing with a community of folks who might be able to relate.

Have you read "Cheap Sex" by Regnerus?

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Submitted by Marnia on

I think everyone on this forum would find it fascinating reading. Here's my review from Amazon:

“Cheap Sex” is a clear-eyed assessment of sexual activity, mating and bonding in US culture. Well written, well edited and well grounded in both quantitative and qualitative research, this book expertly and compassionately lays out the less obvious (and largely unintended) effects of reproductive freedom and technologically enhanced “cheap sex.” A recurring theme in the book is that more and hotter orgasms with more partners are paradoxically associated with increasing loneliness across the population.

The karezza is the hot new sex trend of 2018 – and it guarantees even BETTER orgasms (Daily Star)

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Submitted by Marnia on

[Clearly there's a media push behind this couple and their laughable, pro-orgasm version of karezza. Huh??? Their "orgasmic hug" video is a hoot, but I can't embed it. WARNING: Watch out for extreme triggers if you go to the original article.]

MANY couples are incorporating the karezza method into their love lives.

Karezza Is The Orgasm-Free Way To Improve Your Sex Life (Women's Health)

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Submitted by Marnia on

“People have sex like rabbits. Karezza is more like having sex like a tortoise.”

Whether it’s a quickie in the closet while the kids sleep, a brief bang in the bathroom in between teeth-brushing and face-washing, or a three-minute romp in the sack before the snoring strikes, you're probably good at “efficient” sex.

Thank you Marnia!

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Submitted by sender on

My wife and I had an extra-nice session last night. It lasted around 2.5 hours and really connected; an other-worldly expression of our loving feelings for one another manifest in our physical bodies - it's quite something. Lately it seems like each session is even better than the one before although I'm not sure how that's possible. These days we fully enjoy sex, surrenduring completely to it rather than being worried about an unintentional release which rarely happens anymore.

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