I am posting this as a piece of NEWS of the current sexual climate.
Although, it's not really news at all, but simply one more confirmation of our society's deep need for karezza.
I assume you've all seen Gaile's information: but here it is in case you haven't. I thought her talk was really relevant.
Her TedX talk titled "Growing Up in a Pornified Culture | Gail Dines | TEDxNavesink"
Gail's website here:
She describes herself as part of the only anti-porn feminist group in the country.
This is so sad. And so true.
We had only been on two dates prior to having sex. I'm not used to women moving along this quickly! She kind of surprised me with that. Netflix and BAM! :) Nothing wrong with that, but I learned that the kind of sex she really likes is not what I'd like, so are we incompatible?
A few years back I was introduced to Thomas Campbell's "My Big Toe." In it, he discusses how fractals exist at every level of reality. The most basic fractal is evolution, which he colorfully states as "grow or die." I've been thinking of the fractals that exist in bonding. I've come to realize that if I want to experience a deeper bond with my wife, I need to bond with everything. My morning coffee, the jazz music that I listen to on Pandora, the sun coming through the leaves, the work that I do, and even the movements of my body through physical space.
[This may be of interest to some.]
A phenomenon dubbed "pornosexuality" has emerged where people prefer online porn to sex with real people, it has been claimed.
The term describes someone whose "sexual orientation is linked solely to porn", according to Medical Daily.
One self-identified pornosexual quoted by the website said: "If I had to choose to have one or the other for the rest of my life, I would choose porn over real sex any day."