We are going through a rough patch, rather I am. He is right there with me though. Sex has come to a complete halt because some switch just got turned off in me. Usually I find that around the time of my cycle, my sex drive steeply increases. This past time however, it has been completely different. I feel completely dead. All of a sudden I am always tired. I can't really focus on anything (except work) and sex just feels impossible.
It is so strange. On a cognitive level I want to have sex and be close with with. But then we try and sex feels suffocating. It's a problem because I can't even lay and cuddle with him without feeling trapped. There is absolutely no sex drive.
Bless his soul...he knows me by now. He is so patient and understanding. Despite all this my love for him is growing.
Sorry, feeling hopeless.